Hey everyone, im new here and i like to see if you guys could help me. Im generally a secure person, or have been my whole life. I have this strange feeling almost all the time that im not existant, or that what i see is an illusion. I can remember a time when i didnt feel this way, so that helps alot. Alright well thanks guys, and i appreciate any help. Lemme know if you need me to elaborate or something. Peace.
Hey man. Sounds rather normal to have the occasional 'what if' thought going through your head - that is, unless it's constant day and night! That's interesting that you bring up the topic of security as well, because this might just be your very 'illusion'. Don't be fooled into thinking that security and insecurity are direct opposites - they're actually quite the same, and they're both born from fear. So maybe, by stripping yourself of the concept of security altogether, you will feel more at ease with saying "what if?", and more comfortable with maybe not even having an answer to the question at all . So hey, ponder it for a while. See what you come up with. And welcome to the forums by the way, I'm relatively new here as well. Peace out, homie.
13 is a weird age. Enjoy it. Not a child anymore. Barely a teen. And adulthood looks like a foreign country. You sound pretty normal to me. The next several years, you're going to hone your social skills and define some goals. Right now, thats still on the drawing board. Face it, you're a lump of wet clay. Whatever shape you take is up to you. Choose carefully. Life will punish you for the wrong decisions. x
Hey thanks guys, i do understand that i have alot of growing to do. I appreciate the help/advice. It really helps me that i have 3 older siblings who are 19 20 and 21, ive seen what theyve gone through so yeah. See you around the forums thanks again!
One thing id like to add is that when i say "non existent", I dont mean like i don't get enough attention. Its like a physical thing. When i don't think about it, i feel pretty good but it comes back,.
