My girlfriend and I have been together for nearly one month now. We've been friends for about four months and gf/bf for about 3 weeks. We are very open in communicating about basically anything about our relationship, and a few days ago, she told me that she feels guilty that the amount of love she recieves from me cannot match that of her to me. I told her that day not to think about it so much, and let the relationship grow naturally... Is there any way to let her not think of the relationship as a scoreboard? Or is it better if I dont smother her with my love and affection that much and even the playing field? Need some advice..
There is not much of a problem here, your aditude is ok, and your comment on her guilty feelings is totally ok. Don't worry too much about this, just act naturally. Peace
Sounds like she's worried you're not feeling the same way that she does. Maybe she's a bit insecure and needs a little reassurance that you're very interested and aren't going anywhere in addition to what you've already said.
