I want my GF to give me deep throat BJ

My GF only puts half my cock in her mouth when giving me head. I want her to put the whole thing inside, which would require my cock to go down her throat (I'm 8 inches long) and suck away until completion. Can anyone suggest how I should approach her about it? I haven't talked to her about it yet, and she's never tried deep throat before.

 

being able to deep thraot generally takes practice, patience and determination. it aint gonna happen overnight, shell slowly have to work her way around her gag reflex. there are some tutorials onlinea bout it but really, eh, ive never understood the appeal. imho, you should b ehappy that her mouth is on your cock, but thats just my take on it

 

But what is the proper way to ask her? I don't think I should just say "Can you try putting my whole dick in your mouth this time?" How about "I really enjoy it when you give me a blowjob, but I was wondering if it would feel even better if you tried going deeper? I think I would really enjoy it."

 

discuss fantasies with one another. ask her what some of hers are, then offer up some of your own including the one of her deepthraoting. also look up some how-to's n such so youre at elast armed with some knowledge on the matter (and no, porn does not count as a howto)

 

I agree with that 100%. Call me a prude or whatever, but I just don't see the appeal of deep-throating, and I don't and won't do it.

 

I'm not to big on that deep throating thing. Because it always hurts me when she gets a little past half way. Does anybody else have this problem or is it just something that she is doing?

 

Just talk to her and tell her that you want her to deep throat. Usually my boyfriend will ask me while im giving him head to deep throat and he'll push down on my head. If she says shes never done it then she'll need to practice because my first time i almost threw up from gagging so much and then i had to stop because i couldnt stop coughing.

 

You can ditch her and date a professional sword swallower instead. :jester:

 

you make it sound so bad but really its not. just think of it as eating a popcicle.

 

just take a dildo an shove it down your throat,then after you get done pucking your guts out,say see,its easy,,now do me...

 

Well, today I finally popped the question. I asked her to suck deeper. So she did, but it wasn't completely in. So I pushed farther in, and then she choked. I apologized, but she was upset because she knew I did it on purpose. Seeing that she was not in the mood for oral sex any more, I just proceeded to ask for anal sex. Still trying to get deepthroat from her though. I'll try again tomorrow, and this time I will explicitly ask for the whole shaft down her throat. I guess I wasn't clear enough today.

 

You were already advised by another poster here to ask her what some of her fantasies are. That way you can offer to carry out her big fantasy and then she'll return yours. Really she's not going to be "in the mood for oral sex any more" unless there's an incentive -- the HOT fantasy of HERS that you'll fulfill. Don't be so selfish.

 

I say skullfuck her!

 

Well, right now my priority is to perfect my anal experience with her (she's still refusing to take off the condom). But I would like the deepthroating to go along with it, that's all.

 

Have u absorbed anything I said???

 

This is CRAZY. I have the same problem/want and I am 8 inches as well.

 

I would just like to know how to deep throat...how do u get past the gag reflex..since it's natural to gag...anyone know? I'm not sure if I would enjoy it or not, but would like to try....Love oral

 

Yes I have. She doesn't have any sexual fantasy. What she likes the most is non-sexual actually. She loves poetry, and I write her poems left, right, and center in order to get laid.

 

yay, shit covered dick sounds great

sorry, but, anal = condom. call me a clean freak if you msut, but, ick. i feel sorry for your girlfriend tbh, sounds like your trying to make her push (way) past her comfort zone in a multitude of ways and all youre doing to try and make it happen is write some poetry "to get laid". guh.

 

You are getting oral and anal and yet you still complain.......<rolling eyes>

I am far from a prude and enjoy pleasing my husband orally, but if he ever shoved his dick down my throat on purpose his dick would NEVER be in my mouth again. That is so far past disrespectful it isn't funny. How f-ing rude!