Married, but Carrying another man's baby? Advice Please help! Opinon's welcome!

if you wouldn't drink their water, why would you get drunk with them and fuck them? none of you should have the child, imo. you sound irresponsible for ever getting involved with people like that in the first place.

 

I support you 100% in WHATEVER choice you make. But it sounds like cathy and her husband are seriously defective anyway. Your husband is a good man, let him raise the baby and get rid of them ASAP. Make sure you do it legally or it will end up biting you in the ass (worst than what it already is). Good Luck

 

your pretty kick ass for doing what your doing. Most ppl would have gone with an abortion but instead your giving a girl a chance and thats real cool i wish you luck in everything you and your baby do.

 

Be careful when you tell her. She might resent you for telling her later in life. It's a funny thing about that. I'd seek counseling about when is the right time to tell her.

 

I had an affair with another man while married and even though my husband and I thought we were having a child together, the baby turned out not to be his. I'm really struggling with my situation and was hoping I could talk to you more about how you've been able to save your marriage. If you're interested in speaking, please let me know.
Thank you

 

Restraining order... lol Yeah I would def cut all ties. You don't need the stress, and your family doesn't need it. I would just be focusing on this pregnancy/baby and completely act as if they never existed. There is no way they should be given any rights to see this child after the way they treated you. I must say your husband is a very VERY forgiving man and you are extremely lucky to have him. This situation could have gone completely different if it had been any other man out there.