Hey, have just started seeing this new girl, about a week, have been having sex non-stop since, but she won't let me go down on her. I don't know why, i've asked her and she won't tell me. Any idea of how I could convince her to let me do this or figure out why she won't let me. Thanks for any help
Well... I think the only way to fix this, is too keep talking to her about why she feels uncomfortable, and tell her that there is nothing wrong with it. She may be afraid that you will be grossed out somehow (smell, taste, etc) Talk to her of any past experience you may have, or tell her its a desire of yours to do so. Hope this helped.
she's either self-conscious of smell, taste, appearance or she's really sensitive there, maybe she had a bad experience where a past lover used too much pressure on her or touch her clit directly. To help put her at ease shower with her b4 hand. When making love work your way down there v-e-r-y s-l-o-w-l-y so she can have time to build up for it. Finger her and let her know how much you love the look, smell, and taste, lick your fingers like you're loving it. Read up on THE-ART-OF-CUNNILINGUS-or-HOW-TO-EAT-PUSSY, excellent info on there. The clit is very sensitive, I myself can't stand direct contact on the clit it must be stimulated over the hood.
i know how to give good head, trust me, thats not d problem, and i don't have any coldsores, thank you very much. Talked to her last nite, she just sees it as a more personal thing and would prefer to wait before doing it, can understand that. I've it promised to her for her birthday!!!
some women arent comfortable with it, and you just have to reassure them and let them know that you love their pussy, the smell the taste, everything. were pretty self conscious about those things, or at least, i am and so are a lot of women i know. you get derogatory comments about "meatflaps" and fishy smells and shit like that (btw a fishy smell could indicate a vaginal infection) or just being overly odourous and its just frustrating sometimes. anyway.... ranting done with. reassure her, let her know you love her no matter what, and be patient
