BIG drama with my mom - advice please!

I haven't spoken to my mom in like six months and she's STILL making drama in my life! This time it's really weird. She emailed something to my aunt and my sister saying that she found it online. She was wigging out because it says that I'm bi. The weird thing is, my sister and I can't figure out where she got it. It's very similar to what comes up when you search for me on MySpace, down to the date of the last update, but a couple of things are different - the name is my real name, instead of the fun glitter I have as my name. Also, there are a couple of added categories that don't come up on the MySpace.

My mom is NOT smart enough or internet-savvy enough to search for me on MySpace, even if she knew it existed (which is questionable). So it looks like someone sent it to her to try and start trouble. Pretty much everyone but her has known for years. The only person I can think of that would do this is my XH - he's done little lying emails before, but it's been to friends of mine and it's been totally made up stuff because he was jealous.

If it is XH, I don't know why he's doing this. He knows I don't speak to my mother, and he knows she's very mentally unstable and her sisters have warned me in the past not to tell her about my sexuality because she'll kill herself.

I'm just so confused!

 

let her wig, she is a big girl and so are you,,, if she cant handle it then oh well... you already dont speak to her so whats it really matter???

 

So you are so worried about her mental health that you didn't tell her about your sexuality even though it is publically available but you don't talk to her. If she is that unstable shouldn't you be trying to help her? Anyways, yeah if you have already disowned her why are you sweating it?

 

I don't speak to her, but the rest of my family does. She's freaking out about it and they have to deal with it.

 

Handle your own problems with your own mother. If you don't want to do that then I don't know what you really can do.

 

Yeesh, that was harsh. You never once in your whole life asked someone for advice? You never faced a problem that you really didn't know how to handle?

 

All i can say is talk to her... And talk to XH definitely cos if he really did do it then chances are he needs help too.