how do you all get your other parthner ( wife ) to masturabte in front of you before sex or just doing it? Something to break up reg sex.
Men are more visual and like to see what is going on when they have sex. Many women are more demure, and like the "lights off". So it is natural that they may not want to expose their private parts to their partner in the ways they must do when they masturbate in front of him. See if you can get her to show you how she likes to masturbate, so you can learn from her and do it to her, in the same way as she does it, when you engage in foreplay. Then ask her to masturbate for you, at the same time as you masturbate yourself for her. She is not just putting on a show for you - you are both doing this for each other, as part of your foreplay. After doing this for a while, and both getting aroused, roll it into a passionate session of intercourse.
you can do her a hj and i hope she will do you a hj and after a while when she feels comfy about it you can bring up the idea you want to watch her masturbate.
Has she ever masturbated? Sometimes woman don't really know how, or they don't do it very often because they feel shame full. I'm a woman, and Iv been masterbating since I could remember, and have very good control of my orgasims. When I talk to other girl's about this most have never really tried or they feel shame when they try. Mabey try kissing her, and masterbating with her while making out.
