Im not sure if this in sexual health, i believe it is though so here goes. I used to be like totally crazy about my boyfriend and I still am but i used to be like always wanting to go have sex with him. I cant remember the last time ive actually instigated sex with him. I dont know why this is. I havent lost attraction to him, i still love him to death and feel the same about him. I just... dont have the urge to have sex. He pointed it out to me tonight and now i feel really bad. Anyone know any ways to spice up our sex life, or just make me more horny?
Are you on birth control or any other medication? They can affect your libido. Everyone goes through periods of time when they don't care about sex.....but if you're worried talk to your doctor or make a concious effort to have sex, sometimes your sex drive needs a jump start
stress is the number one killer of sex drives. take some time to mellow out. light some candles, put on some soothing music, meditate a little. masturbate a little hten go hunt him down to finish the job
I was the same way not even a month ago, my boyfriend just got a p.a. done and now I'm like a rabid wolf.
Yea, I am on birth control. but its funny, today my boyfriend and I had really exciting (wont get too into detail) sex hehe. and i was like wow... i needed that. I think we just needed to switch it up a bit! I also do feel pretty stressed like allonym said. I feel a bit better though today. Hopeully itll keep up Thanks for the info guys
