However hard it may seem, it's necessary. it helps you see yourself in a different light; and you see things from a more mature perspective. It's been a tough time for me trying to cope with yet another failed relationship; but deep down i try to think that even if the last one didnt work, it doesnt mean that i havent learnt anything. cos i have. i've learnt things about myself and about others...i guess it's all part of growing up and learning about the game of life. gaining experience for the future. I'm just looking forward to the future now. I still have feelings for my ex, but there's nothing i can do about that. just let the time heal my wounds and get back on the road of life. for anyone who's in this situation. feel free to comment.
I agree. I was absolutely in love with my ex. I still sometimes find myself thinking about him and missing things, even though he's moved on and will most likely be married soon to someone else. I know though that our breakup was absolutley nessecary, not just for us but for me because I learned so much that I needed to learn and I will take with me wherever I go and whomever I meet in the future.
i guess breaking up is one of those things you need to experience in order to learn things about yourself as well as knowing what to do better in future relationships. But in the long term, you feel stronger, more secure about things as you know the ways relationships work. We never stop learning, i guess that's what life is, learning.
hey guys i am trying to break up with my boyfriend since yesterday. its so hard, i dont believe we have a future but i hate that i am hurting him and he is probably very lonely right now. as am i. i have tried before but go back because i dont think he can look after himself, though he probably can. it would be so much easier if he acepted it and i wouldnt feel so bad for it. i am sad too but i know i wouldnt be happy with him in the long run though i am was happy enough with him for the last 3 years. we were living in a nice little house together and it was so nice and comfortable and i hate to leave him there in a nearly empty house now by himself.. i really need to not think about how much i am hurting him.
believe me, i know the feeling. i had to break up with my boyfriend. it was very hard because he did not want to accept this. and he was very angry with me. but he finally accepted it, and realized that i had to do this. if you are not happy with him, you have to find the strength to do it. you can't stay with him forever just because you are afraid to hurt him. the longer you stay, the more you and he both will suffer. and if he truly loves you, he will accept the fact that you have to leave him, and he will let you go. so i just wish you strength in what you have to do. hopefully it will not be an ugly break up, if you do in fact leave him.
