what is it with girls nowadays

most girls i know told me that they have been with older guys... i mean 10+ older and it kinda freaks me out... what the fuck do they want to get raped.. now i know not all guys are bad... i mean fuck im a very nice guy liked by a lot of people... im 19 but im not gonna go after anyone under 17 to me the limit is about 2 years.. for most kids my age that is the limit.. under that alot of girls act really imature... i just dont get why some girls want to be with guys sooo much older... and why some guys are perverted enough to want it as well

 

My boyfriend is 27 and I'm 18. He's the greatest guy I've ever been with, and is actually nice to me. I can't say the same for the boys my own age that I've dated.

 

..........Rape has nothing to do with age, it depends on the individual.

...........Why do younger women date older men, they are more mature, more stable, have solid jobs, more experienced, and such. Older guys have learned to care more about whats inside then just outside looks of a women. Young women get tired of the party boy mentality young men have, older guys are more mellow. They also don't play games as much with a relationship and take it more seriously, devoting the necessary effort to sustain it.

..........Why do older guys date younger women, the simplest reason is because they can.

...........Relationships are about two souls coming together to share life and enjoy what the other has to offer. Age is a minor factor as long as the two share the same likes, ideas, feelings, goals in life, though even some times thoughs do not matter. Relationships may be short lived depending on the need of the individuals or my last a lifetime.

..........One thing is for sure not all young women date older guys. It sounds like the women you know consider you more of a friend then a potental lover. If the the woman you liked turned you down, don't blame older guys for your lack of skills at socializing with the opposite sex.

 

Most older guys know how to treat a lady...I've been with guys who are 10, 11, 12 years older than me and got along pretty well with them, which I dont seem to do with guys my age.
Most guys of my age use their cocks to make decisions, which is a big no no.

:H

 

I'm dating someone who's 24 (6years older than me) and he's awesome... I used to date this guy who was one year younger than I am, though he was pretty mature for his age...

But I think about 6-7 years is the largest age difference I can handle now. Last year, when I was 17, it would've been more like 3 years. The younger you are, the bigger the difference in maturity between ages.

When girls are quite a bit younger (elementary/early high school ages) older guys are considered to be "cool", which is why they try to date them. And get taken advantage in some situations (some guys are actually really good about this, some are slimeballs).

I figure that while still in elementary or secondary school, most kids shouldn't date more than one year off from them. You're still developing so much mentally and physically in those years that the difference between a 13 and 15 year old is huge.

But that's just my opinion.

 

This makes absolutely no sense whatsoever..
Rape, where the fuck did you get rape from?????
I would date someone older, I will be 25 in a few weeks, and I most certainly would date someone 35... who fucking cares..its not like i am 10 or 16..
Next time, please make your threads a little bit more coherent and understandable...thank you and have a great day...

 

I don't understand how people can make these age limits, if you like someone you like them...are you going to meet someone who seems perfect and then say "I can't date you because you are 5 years older than me and my limit is 4"

 

~chuckle~... is true.. it really doesnt matter so much.. age is really just a number.. it depends on the actual person in terms of experience, maturity and where they are in life.. tho..im not sure i'd feel comfortable goin out with a very older guy.. id probably be lookn at him as my grandad.. actually my friends grandad is dating a 35yr old woman.. heho.. i think he's around 70.. but he's doin well so... good for them if theyr happy.. different poeple ,, different circumstances

 

Wow Kayla, tell us what you really think. Wait ta state yer mind though. *my kinda brawd!*

 

I agree ans it's totally true!

 

By the way that was a burn that whispers gave you!

 

When I was 15 I dated a guy 4 years older than me. (We didn't have sex or anything, until I was legal)

Now I'm dating a guy that is, again, 4 years older.
I consider myself a mature 22 yr old, I had people telling me how mature I was at 15...so...I have a problem with young guys cause the only head they typically think with is the one in between thier legs.
Older guys have thier life together more. There's an exeption to every rule though, of course.

 

I think you just described every single male

 

I understand all of your points of views and i thank you for being honest... I was just venting be cause my 13 yr old cuz is dating a guy who was 20... it really bothered me cause i didnt trust the guy at all... i kinda have a six sence about people.. the first time i met him there was something i didnt like.. and that is why i wrote this thread.. im sorry if i offended anyone.. but it is how i felt

 

Uh well thats a little different there..you didnt say anything about a 13 year old and a 20 year old...yeah, that is not right.

 

I am 29 single and need a 19 year old girlfriend..any offers IM me..


no seriously... I don't think i could date a girl older than myself or 19ish (even with the kudos that might bring) . If the 19plus woman in my area were more like some of the women on this forum my mind change. I mean that in the best possible way...

 

I can't tell is it bad or not...I haven't experienced it, but I have example near me:
My dad and mom age difference is 8 years....And they both really love each other.....Their realationship is example for everyone

It's really silly to say: no you can't date him, cause he is 15 years older. Who cares...... LOVE CAN DO EVERYTHING!!!!!

 

Yeah, but a 13 year old with a 20 year old???

sorry maybe if she was 16...but 13..shit, I didnt know what dating was when i was 13..

 

you can get mature 13 year old , its still wrong ... but i read stuff around here from young girls that make be blush and suprised at the maturity...granted i am more easy listening than rock and roll but still...

CASE STUDY
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NAME/AGE: Samantha McCormick, 16
LIVES: Jesmond, Newcastle

SAM has tried a variety of drugs including ecstasy and the horse tranquilliser Ketamine.

A normal weekend for the blonde, who has just finished her GCSEs, includes getting drunk on Friday, sharing a bottle of tequila for Saturday breakfast and then an afternoon drinking in the park.

She lost her virginity at 15 and has had three sexual partners.

Yet she believes she leads a normal teenager’s life.

Sam, who lives with mum Denise, a fitness instructor, and stepdad Richie, a window salesman, says: “I moved on from cigarettes to marijuana at 14.

“I have tried mushrooms. And I had ecstasy when I was 14, mixing it with beer, wine and alcopops.

“Ketamine made me feel wobbly — but I’ve seen people crawling on the floor on it. I was very sick.

“If me and my mates have enough money we’ll buy a bottle of tequila for breakfast. After that, we drink in the park all afternoon.

“I lost my virginity a couple of months after turning 15.

SALLY BROOK
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Teens in grip
of sexual crisis

- SARAH GILL
SEX HEALTH EXPERT

Danger ... experts predict
an infertility time-bomb
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By GRANT ROLLINGS
and HARRY MacADAM

OUR teenagers are in the grip of a massive sexual health crisis, an expert warned last night.

Gynaecologist Dr Sarah Gill spoke out after a Sun survey exposed a horrifying teen culture of sex, drugs and alcohol in Britain today, including rampant underage sex.

The sex health expert said: “It is very important The Sun is highlighting this issue.

"We are in a huge sexual health crisis.

"The chance of picking up a sexually-transmitted infection is much higher than ten years ago.

“It is going to keep getting worse if people maintain the attitudes shown in this survey.”

Our shock study revealed A QUARTER of 13 to 15-year-olds have had sex.

And a staggering 60 per cent of those have had unprotected sex.

By 15, sexually-active teens will have already slept with more than two people.

And by 19 they will have had more than four partners.

Experts predict an explosion in sexually-transmitted infections and an infertility timebomb.

Teens are not taking the dangers of sex seriously.

Only one third of 13 to 15-year-olds are worried about HIV/Aids.

Disturbingly, it is the youngest age group who are taking the greatest risks.

Over a quarter of Britain’s 13-15 age group have had sex and one in six of that total age group has had sex without contraception.

Sexually-active teens aged between 13 and 15 lose their virginity at an average age of just 13 years and three months.

Half of the 16-19 age group have slept with someone and HALF of those have had unprotected sex.

42 PER CENT of the sexually-active 13 to 15-year-olds admitted a one-night stand.

The decision to ignore warnings about sexual diseases is damaging the health of youngsters.

Ten per cent of boys have had an infection.

A similar number have been drunk while having sex and ten per cent of sexually-active teens have slept with someone of the same sex.

The Sun survey also showed that drug and alcohol abuse is WORST among youngest teens.

A massive 42 per cent of 13 to 15-year-olds have tried cannabis.

A staggering 96 per cent of all teens drink with 45 per cent of them boozing at least once a week.

Also, when 18-30 year-olds were asked if they would fight for Queen and country, only a FIFTH said they would do so unconditionally.

And 34 per cent believe this country is racist.

More than half say they do not trust the police and a third believe Britain is stuck in the past.

Despite this a whopping 80 per cent of youngsters said they were proud to be British.

The sex and drug survey was carried out by Dubit, a market research company that specialises in talking to young people.

The firm also carries out statistical work for the Home Office.

It polled 611 13 to 19-year-olds in all regions of the UK.

The data is weighted to ensure it is representative of the youth population.



<LI>The responses asterisked are from teens who have had sex.

The others are for the whole of the survey group.

'Sitting on a timebomb'
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LAST night politicians and health campaigners warned that the Government was failing to protect Britain’s youth from sexual disease and drug abuse.

Shadow Health Secretary Andrew Lansley said: “The Sun’s survey will shock every parent.”

The father of ecstasy victim Leah Betts was also concerned.

Ex-police officer Paul Betts, 57, added: “Young people are confused by the mixed messages being sent out by the Government.”

Sun GP Dr Carol Cooper said: “We are sitting on a sexual health timebomb."



A Government spokesman said last night: “A key part of our strategy is to prevent today’s young people becoming tomorrow’s problematic drug users.



“The Department of Health’s drugs information campaign Frank provides advice and help for young people to make informed choices about drugs.”

How to
get help
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TEENAGERS can contact these confidential helplines for SEX advice: Family Planning Association, 0845 310 1334; Brook Young People’s Information Service, 0800 0185 023; Sexwise, 0800 282930.

For advice on ALCOHOL, contact Alcohol Concern, 020 7922 8667 or Drinkline, 0800 917 8282.

For DRUGS support, ring Frank, 0800 776600.



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Oh.....If thirteen years old girl with twenty years,.....I can't say anything.....

At that age....hmmmmm...I think I was just a little girl, it could be that I was still playing with dolls
But now my sister, who is thirteen years old don't play with toys, except computer games......