I don't usually do this, but I realy need some advice on this one. My boyfriend and I have been going out for 2 months (not that long) But we realy like each other and we are usually pretty honest with each other but yesterday I heard from a friend that he was only staying with me while he tried to hook back up with his ex-girlfriend. Yesterday we talked about it, and he said he never intended to do that, that a couple of weeks back he did want to but doesn't want to anymore. I don't know if I can believe him and things have been different since I started school again so what can I do? I mean I do realy like him, and he is usually more then fantastic but just not this past week, he says he's been stressed because he works with his ex, and she's stressful. I know she's a bitch but why would that affect our relationship if he isn't trying to get back with her? Im too confused to think strait right now!
It shouldn't affect your relationship. As for him telling the truth, it's his word against everyone who's telling you otherwise. Can you believe him or the others? Sometimes people like to cause drama.
question the source. your relationship is new and in order for it to work, you have to trust him...if he cheats, or dumps you for her, its his bad because you fulfilled your end of the bargain. if you start questioning him and he feels you don't trust him, he may decide to flee into the other girls arms...its a double edged sword i tell ya...
I know it must be hard to trust him. believe me i've been there not too long ago. Just let him know how you feel and dont pay attention to what people say.
Well he called yesterday, and we sort of broke it off on the phone, then I told him to come over to my place so we could talk, and the funny thing about it is, as soon as on the phone he said listen i don't think this is working I said oh my god I was just going to say the exact same thing, and I jumped on my bed, it was such a relief, I HATE breaking up with people, but I have to say, that with the way things finished it's all good, because when he came over to talk it helped all of the relationships, between me and my friend, him and my friend, me and him... And we just laughed about everything that had happened, we are going to make way better friends anyway, and like I told him, live life to the fullest and have no regrets, I don't. Im glad things happened the way that they did. Laney
