no one understands

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by turnon_tunein, Oct 9, 2007.

  1. turnon_tunein

    turnon_tunein Member

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    every person i have ever been with has not had any understaning of me. it has always ended because of differences.

    everyone i know: "free love? i don't get it"
    every male i know: "free love? awesome, let's fuck!"

    why is it so hard to find some understanding? is it the town i live in? it's been 19 years, you'd think someone would come along. it's easy to be a "self proclaimed hippie", and then take advantage of me. obviously. :(
     
  2. Allonym

    Allonym cheesecake slut

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    perhaps try communicating to them your theory of free love before they have the opporutnity to use you
     
  3. turnon_tunein

    turnon_tunein Member

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    it's not that people use me. i don't allow myself to be used. i suppose you misunderstood.

    it's the lack of understanding from everyone around me that is frustrating.
     
  4. Marija

    Marija Senior Member

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    Beeing self-declared as free lover it tricky thing to do because most of the people understand is as fucking without comitment, especialy man. There is high risk of beeing used so i can understand why people don't acept the free love thing.
     
  5. Allonym

    Allonym cheesecake slut

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    this is waht i was replying to:

    so i suppose you misunderstood what i was replying to in your post

    honestly, if you set yourself up to be misunderstood by all, or refuse to communicate to anyone what you mean when you spout off words like "free love" (which has a variety of meanings depending on the beholder), of course its hard to "understand" you
     
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