To start off, I am 19 years old. I dated my first love 4-5 years ago. We broke up because we were both pretty immature and it just wasnt working out. We stayed friends for a while but soon lost touch. Recently, he found me on myspace and we have been talking. I just moved 2 hours away, but i usually drive down there every weekend to hang out with my old friends, since i hate my new town. I am driving there next weekend, and he asked to see me, but now im debating on whether or not to stay at a hotel, or stay at his place like he's been suggesting I do. He even volunteered to give me his room and that he would sleep on the couch so I felt more "Comfortable". I havnt seen him in about 4 years though, and he is a big flirt, so I dont know If I should get myself in a risky situation. I can't check into a hotel because im 19. He is 22, so he would have to check in for me. If you were in my situation, would you try to stay at a hotel no matter what, or would you go for it and stay at his place?
well, first off can't you check into a hotel at 18? second is do YOU really wanna see him again? I definitely know that if my ex wanted to see me, I really wouldn't be thinking about being friends and exchanging friendly chat...cuz that's not what I remember or was used to with them, I'd say from being a guy, if he is currently single...he's not gonna be thinking "friends" either, but who knows...all up to you though
