Read previous posts if you care to hear the emotions. UPDATE: BF / Human Compliment, gets pregnant on a wasted out one night stand knocked up style, cant bring herself to terminate the pregnancy. 25 yrs old, asks me for my advice. I say abort, how will u finish school? Lets me know shes keeping the baby. She apologizes for screwing our chances up (we live in dif countries, had long term intentions but couldnt be a reality until school and residency is done). Beautiful baby boy, lives with one nght stand dude. Cries and cries, realizes she must make the best of the situation. Still finishing school, gets a nanny, dads around but theyre not in love. I have not moved on. Would embrace them both without thinking twice. Communication only makes it worse, shes not happy but making the best. Shes given me something to hold on to, but I know I must not communicate. Can anyone relate?