I've been in a pretty decent relationship for about 8 months,...that just progressivley started to decay. He began to ditch me for other things, and take me for granted. When we were supposed to spend time together, he had other things to do, but when he had time for me, i was expected to drop everything for him. I'm sick of it, and im dumping him, but im scared, because i love him, but he isn't there for me, so i have to do it. I need some advice from people who've been there, any comments would be greatly appreciated. I'm not gonna be taken for granted anymore! ~peace,Danni :grouphug:
just remember that you can do better than a guy who doesnt even want to spend time with you, and can do better thana hypocrite... youll find someone else in time, dont worry
I'm sorry sweetie. But Allonym is right. You can find someone who will appreciate you and not take you for granted. Until then, stick to your guns, stay strong, and you'll be fine before you know it. Good luck!!
If you havent read, "Why men love bitches", or "Why men marry bitches", you HAVE to. They are awesome books, you should give them a try. You can always suddenly have things come up. Or plan nights to hang out with your friends. When he sees you are not available 24/7, hopefully he will step up his game in order not to lose you, if he truly cares.
Do not return two or three of his phone calls. Believe me he will not stop calling unless you've alredy given in too much and he has lost respect for you. it works like a charm. I am engaged to the man of my dreams and he asked me to marry him in the most romantic way with a gorgeous ring after just 3 months of dating. You get to choose the type of woman you want to be and you as a woman need to start setting the standard of how you want a guy to treat you.
