What would be an average size of a girl aged 14-16 breast size be?I feel that mine are way huge for my age.A 36 DD at only 15, I don't get it.They seem really large compaired to other girls, which makes me feel awkward.
I was bigger than you when I was your age. The average cup size for a woman is a C cup. Don't feel awkward it is your body you should be proud of it.
The boys are learning how to appreaciate a woman's breasts without offending the woman. That is their problem, not yours. Whether boys like your breasts is of little matter. Which expressions of their appreciation are acceptable, is up to you. How to react to unacceptable appreciation....? I have no experience and no clue. "The boys like it" is a pretty silly reason for a woman to do anything.
+_+ I was trying to cheer her up, dickhead figured any gal would like to feel attractive. why is that part of what you don't like? do they treat you odd? do you just not like boys? (nothing wrong with that, by the way, actually most of the boys would like that too =P) boys can be dicks, just ignore any negative attention and take it as a compliment
lol, having some guys staring at her boobs all the time isn't going to make her feel attractive. Especially if she's self concious about it. It actually makes a girl feel like more of an object than attractive. as for the op, when I was 9, my boobs were already b cups, and by the time I was 12, I was a full c. Most of the girls I went to school with didn't really get any boobs till high school, so I know how you feel. There were some girls I knew who were massive, though. It all depends on how your body is built and genetics, really. Averages aren't really something you should go off of here. You can probably see what is average at school. If your boobs are really bothering you physically, as in back aches, etc, then go talk to a doctor and get a really good fitting bra (like I mean go to a place the specializes in proper sizing). If it's more emotional, the bra fitting thing would still help, since it usually improves the overall appearance of them and maybe doing something like that would help you to take a little more pride in them
I was a b at 15 and am a d now. Are you significantly overweight? If not then realize this is your natural size and love it because it is you.
I'm only a C cup, though overweight. My nieces are both average or a little over average weight, and one is a 13 and wears a 36 C, and the other is 14 (soon to be 15) and wears a 38 D. Both are kind of busting out and will booth be moving up a cup size soon. They are proud and love their boobies... lol. In fact, we have a time with the 15 year old finding appropriate shirts for school. The 13 year old is a bit more self-conscious and prefers sport-type bras most of the time to "hide" what she has when she feels like it. She likes the option once in awhile. The 13 year old also started getting boobs at 9! Same time she got her period, so she has had a little longer to deal with it. the other niece was a "late bloomer" but boy did she catch up quickly. Everyone handles it differently. Try not to be ashamed or self-conscious. It's something all of us girls have to come to terms with in one way or another... either not having enough, having too much, having saggy ones, having huge nipples or tiny nipples, having issues after having children, or as we age... we just have to grow to love who we are and what we have been given.
I'm about 5'7 an 130lbs, not fat, not skinny. But the problem with the guys is the grabbing, hitting, staring, and pinching. They only do it to the bigger breasted girls, not the smaller ones. I feel weird when I'm walking down the hallway at school, and then all of a sudden someone grabs them, half the time I don't even know the person, which upsets me more. Not only do they bring un-wanted attention, they bring pains, especially during my period, they are a pain in the ass around that time. They hurt so bad, and they make my back hurt all the time. I wish I could get rid of at least half of them.
seriously, go get a proper bra fitting if they hurt that bad! As for those ass wipes grabbing your boobs, that's illegal! Do you tell them to stop, or just ignore it? I would really complain to someone at the school. Do you have cameras in the halls so that you have some proof? If so, I would definately go talk to someone high up and explain what's going on and to watch the videos, and that this is a voilation of your personal space and body, and illegal. You have the right to feel safe at school, and that right is not being honored right now.
Okay, you need to go to a trusted teacher and tell her/him about this. Or go to the principal's office, OR get the teacher to go with you to the principal's office as an advocate or support. This is a serious thing, and if possible, get some of the other girls they abuse to go with you, and tell them who is doing this to you. If you don't know, find out somehow. This is bullcrap, and is harrassment of the worst kind. You shouldn't have to put up with that. I think that a better fitting bra could help, too... get measured to make sure you're wearing the right size. I know the feeling during your period. Mine stay so sore... A heating pad can usually help with that. Maybe talk to a doctor about what you can do to help alleviate the back pain until you are fully developed and can make a decision about reduction.
well, I usually end up either slapping them or punching them, whichever I feel like doing lol. I've talked to the people at my school, and they say they'll talk to them, but nothing ever happens, it's just continuous, and they do have cameras, and I know they've watched them, but the same shit keeps happening, and my mom knows it also.
^ they could just take that as flirting look them in the eye, serious as fuck and tell them "I don't like that, stop it" if they do it again threaten to tell on them if they do it again, tell on them
They don't care, they just keep doing it. LOL, like I said, I've told people, but they don't do anything.