I've been jerkin it since around 12 years old, lost my virginity at 13. I feel like ever since then I've had to been getting off at least once a day. lately I've been wondering if it's corrupting my mind, having to set some time out of my day to go and jerk off. I've tried a few times to take a break for a few days, I aim for a week- then I see either a hot girl on the street in their skin tight clothes, or I'm watching TV, or on the internet and an add pops up of some almost naked girl. It feels impossible. I play chess with my cock and he always wins. any tips on how to take a break for a bit?
yeah i've definitly been there, but i'm beginning to wonder if the longer i hold off- the better it will be. Cuz lately it's been getting kindof... not boring but i don't know its hard to put in words. anyone know what i mean?
It's a habit, and is usually broken by simply being too busy to masturbate. If you masturbate for stress relief, there are better ways of dealing with stress. Create work for yourself, absolutely anything. Be active. Masturbation isn't bad, per se. Masturbation only becomes bad if you feel enslaved by the need. Start watching less porn, not only less, but porn that is less 'dirty' than you are used to. It is possible to become addicted to porn. The more watched, the more you will crave. Not only can you begin to watch more of it, but desire porn that gets progressively filthier.
You're right, it's an addiction just like heroin or cocaine addiction, and just as harmful to your health, or more so. To 'come off' masturbation cut down at first, then stop.
Very good advice here. Porn is a dangerous path, and I feel like if porn is a big part of your masturbation habit, it will be that much more difficult to stop. So yeah, quit watching porn, and practice overcoming your desires. As soon as you start thinking about masturbating, quickly change your train of thought to something else. It might not work every time, but I guarantee if you stay busy like def zeppelin suggests, cut back on porn, and monitor your thoughts, you will see results.
