Need Womanly advice. Getting gf to wear thong.

Well ladies, I guess you know what my question is. How do I get my girlfriend to wear a thong. I have only gotten her to wear a thong about three times in our four year relationship even though I've told her how much I like them. I've bought her thongs and gift certificates to lingerie stores to no avail. I've told her how sexy thongs make her look but no luck. If its a comfort thing I could understand. However, I have heard women say that once they get used to thongs they wear nothing else. So, how should I get her to wear them enough to get used to them. I really need a woman's advice here. Can you help me?

 

My apologies. I did not mean to post the same question twice.

 

if she dont like them she dont like them plain n simple.. why ya keep floggin a dead horse, perhaps a nice lingerie r something would be better suited for her????

 

you put them on. see how it feels having a strip of fabic chafing between your ass cheeks when you walk. then maybe you'll get off her case.

 

personally, i like wearing em sometimes and i hate panty lines. but thats me and my personal choice - no one "convinced" me to do it... and my bf respects me right to choose my own damn underwear and leaves it be (other than ogling when i do choose it, before and after i put it on... heeheee)

 

If she doesnt like them she doesnt like them
Quit trying to dictate what she wears!

 

I'm with the other posters here. I mean, she doesn't bother you about what you wear, does she? Why should you be allowed to pressure her?

Better yet, if a man was pressuring me to wear a thong, I'd probably go the opposite way and start wearing granny panties around him... lol. That's just me.

 

I agree with everyone else here too... have YOU ever worn one? They're truly uncomfortable!

Isn't there ANYTHING else you like to see her in? Off-the-shoulder sweaters, peep-toe shoes, maybe a tattoo... gosh, there's got to be SOMETHING you find attractive on her that isn't literally a pain-in-the-arse to wear!
love,
mom

 

Well thanks for the advice. I'll make an atempt to prove that I'm not a complete jerk.
Yes. I have tried to wear a thong. I figured if I wanted her to wear one I should at least see how it feels. I actually thougt it was fairly comfortable. Honest. However, she did not like it much so I sort of quit it out. I have tried to get her to wear clothing that is more comfortable but still sexy. (That is why I have given her the gift certificates.) I also have given her other types of underwear boyshorts and such (also a few pair of silk and satin pajamas). She mostly just sticks with the same type of underwear though. Plain white. I simple ask the thong question because it is what I want her to wear the most and I did not feel like asking a longer question. I guess what I really want to know is how I can convince her to make an attempt to be more sexy.

 

That sentence right there will probably get you kicked out of the bed. You're woman should be sexy to you no matter what she wears or how she wears it. She should be able to wear sweats, no make-up, and run around with her hair uncombed if she wants, and you should still find her beautiful and sexy because you love her.

Honestly, I think you're kind of demanding, and I think you are expecting too much. Leave her alone. Tell her how beautiful and sexy she is already and stop pushing anything else. Then maybe she will take it upon herself to wanna show you a little more of what you like. Otherwise, you're being selfish, and nobody wants to look their sexiest for someone who can't appreciate them how they are.

 

I totally agree with its_des10e.

If you love someone, you love them for who they are, not what they wear.

 

good luck, i have never seen mine in one except to impress others.
she has never worn one around me
She kinda started getting rid of her lingerie after we got together anway

 

pull the ultimatum card.

 

I want to strangle the OP with a thong.... But I cant get him to keep one around his neck. He says they are uncomfortable. I've bought all different kinds though. Can anyone help me with this?

 

Make her feel beautiful no matter what she is wearing and maybe she will want to dress up sexy for you. Some of us girls are a little rebellious, if you tell her how much better she would look in thongs, then she might just be like fuck that, love me or leave me… I like a thong every once in a while, but not because some dude told me to put one on.

 

Give her the "pimp hand" lol no seriously you have to let her be her and I would say if you push to much harder she is gonna be her without you.

Obviously she has something going on becuase your still hound dogging around her and obviously you have an issue that you feel the rest of block needs to know just what a hottie you have but is it worth wanting to show her off at the risk of pushing her away?

Some women just do not feel at ease wearing the sterotypical clothes that is "sexy" Some just dont like them, they think they are uncomfortable or stupid ect. Be happy you have her and be happier when she is naked for you because after all Fredricks of Hollywood only offer wrapping paper for the present inside!

 

Hahaha... I hope you're being sarcastic.

That's hilarious.