ok me and my ex broke up about a year or 2 ago it was kinda like a agree ment on it. i love her with all my heart. she was pg with my baby and she had a miscarriage andi was heart broken about that i know im 17 i dont need a kid but i had the feeling we were gonna be together for ever. well we were talking to night and i want to get back with her and she said she wants to be with me to. but the thing is she lives literly 100 miles away from me and she is only 16 now and i am 17 wich isnt a big deal. i trust her i always have and always will. but do you think its worth it to try out a relasionship with her again? even tho its a ldr for a while tel i get another job and will be able to go see her. help me out guys.
I know you may not want to hear this, but what about waiting out high school and if you are still friends with her try going out. But then again 100miles isn't that far away depending on traffic and if there was a real will in the relationship im sure you could have weekly visits. Also think about why the relationship didnt necessarly work out, and would that likely happen again or no? was it just the time or your personalities? It's all you.
The distance shouldn't be what matters, if you and her are truly in love with each other then there is always a way to make it work. I don't know whose quote it is, but love over a distance is like fire in a wind. If it is weak then it will fizzle out, if it is strong then it will only blaze stronger. I think that's pretty appropriate here. That's a lovely feeling to be with someone forever, but you are both young, and people do change over time. From what you've written though, I'd say it's definately worth a shot if it's what you both want.
