Blowjob

(Before I start, I should just make it obvious that I'm a guy, and that I'm bi-curious - this is something that I've wanted to do for a long time, and I'm glad that I've now been able to).

Last night I gave my first blowjob... what an experience that was - whoa!!!

I had spent the whole day with a friend of mine. We had been traveling to some games event on the other side of London, and so as a result spent around 4-5 hours in the car (2 hours or so getting there, and then a bit longer getting back).

Anyway, as we were in the car a lot, we talked a lot, and so talked about all sorts of stuff. Soon enough, on the way back, the chat turned to sex, and all sorts of things were discussed... chatting about the strangest places we'd both masturbated, etc..

So, we got home, still chatting about it.. and joking about, etc.. saying things like I'd suck him off - but at this point, only joking about. A few minutes later he told me that he was erect, which telled me that he was enjoying that chat, and so though - fuck it - and asked him.

I turned all serious, look at him and said "Here is a one time offer that I'll never repeat, if you want a blowjob, sit down, get it out, and I'll suck you off".

He was a bit nervous at first, almost as if he didn't realize what I had offered him, but after a few questions (worried about my parients being in, etc..) he sat down and pulled it out.

Now this is not something which is actually all that important to me, but it was funny how his penis was slightly smaller than mine, but also a different shape. He didn't have as large a helmet as I do, and he was also unable to pull his foreskin all the way back like I am… but he is able to get it far enough back to expose his helmet, and that was good enough for me.

I started by wanking him off lightly, just between my fingers, pulling his foreskin up and down over his helmet, but once it was loose enough, I took it into my mouth and sucked..

Now it felt perfectly natural to have his penis in my mouth. Not from an emotional level (we're just friends, I don't fancy him or anything like that, and I do have a girl that I really like - who, btw, is cool with this, she don't mind that I've done it, after all, it's not an emotional thing, it's just a blowjob), but just the fact that nothing bad happened, you know.

Anyway, so I'm sucking away.. I can't remember quite what I did. I didn't have a technique or anything, I just remember being careful to suck a lot, almost as if I was creating a vacuum (sp) in my mouth. Every now and then I'd stop for a few seconds and lick his helmet, but then put it back in for more sucking (I was also licking his helmet while it was in my mouth).

After a few minutes I told him to lay down so I could get a better angle, then continued. He shuddered a few times, which I took as a good sign, and even started to moan a little bit, which I also took as a good sign.

My jaw started to hurt after a little while, and I remember that my mouth got very dry very quick, so I told him that if he wanked himself off for a while, to help him cum, I'd then take over at the last moment and take it in my mouth. So he did.. and started to cum.. I missed the first jet of cum, but quickly took him in my mouth again, and let him cum in my mouth, which then I swallowed down quickly.

I've tasted my own cum, which is not too bad (but then I think everyone likes their own brand), but his was a bit nasty. It was not foul, and I didn't gag or anything, but it's not something I would eat out of choice (but I am happy to swallow it again if it's part of a blowjob, you know?).

I was erect as a result of this, as I'm sure you can imagine, so I pulled it out and started to wank myself off. I asked him if he wanted to return the favour. He said that he didn't think he'd be able to. So I asked him for a wank off, adding that he didn't have to if he didn't want to, so he passed. So I finished myself off.

Anyway, that's about it. He started for about an hour more as we watched a film, then went home. I've not spoken to him today. I hope he's not going to go all weird on me. It's not going to happen again. It was a one off. And I hope that he understands that. I'll give him a shout later and see how he feels about it. Maybe even get some feedback from him, but then I don't know how good his feedback would be, after all, it is his first blowjob (and he's still a virgin).

Anyway. That's my story. I'm not against giving a blowjob again, but seeing as I do really like this girl, I don't know if I'm going to get the chance (maybe, she's open, but I don't know). All I need to do now is receive anal sex, and I'll be happy man.

 

well congrats dan!

 

Yay!! Dan!!!

I am glad you did what you have been waiting so long to do... and the way you explained it (before too) was hott! You're the man dan!!! And if you really want it annally (sp) then i shall get chu with my toy!!

I am sure your friend will give you nothing but stellar remarks... you know how to work it boy!!

 

all i can say is "wow" and "congrats, yo"

 

Um, wow. I am happy for you man. I personally couldn't bring myself to give a dude head.

 

Well that's fair enough. I mean it's not for everyone. But it's not like the world will explode if you do.

I mean like I said, I'm not attracted to this guy. I'm not attracted to any guys (sorry lads ). We're just friends. He had the horn, I wanted to do it, so we did.

I'm going to see him later, make sure that he's cool with it all, you know. He is a friend, and while it's not *normal* for things like this to happen between friends, I think it is perfectly acceptable.

And as I said, I want feedback LOL

 

Nice one, theres nothing better than doing something you've always wondered about.

Gotta say i'm like the guy above however, couldn't imagine giving head to a guy...

Must say i'm slightly concerned about how your friend will react when he see's you. I'm hoping he's ok with the whole thing, but something tells me he isn't going to be...

Good luck!

 

Way to go Dan!

I just hope that your buddy is gonna be ok with this afterwards. It might be weird for him, especially with it being his first bj like you said. Give him time, make sure you let him know that you value the friendship more than any sexual bonuses

I just recently discovered that my bf had experimented with guys before, just oral like you did basically. Have you told your girl that you're intersted in at all? Are you planning to?

Anyways, glad you got a shot at it

 

She knew early on that I'm bi-curious, and that didn't bother her. And I've told her about the BJ too, and she's cool with it.... I'm glad.

 

that's cool man. You had the chance to do something adventurous and you went ahead with it.
...your story sort of turned me on too!!

 

ROFL!!!!! :sunglasse

 

the first time i gave a bj it was to my best friend and we stayed best friends for years after wards...we're still pretty good freinds but nothing like that has happened since. since he's not gay it may take him some time to get used to the thought, and you may never get that feedback you wanted because i find most people are too uncomfortable with the thought and talking about it afterwards....i think your best feedback was that he finished in your mouth...what more confirmation do you need?

 

Maybe you can tell me more about it? I'd love to hear the story.. someone elses experiance of doing the same thing.

 

somethings are better left unspoken...some things i don't really want to share on a public forum. tell ya what, if its really that important, i'll pm you with more details in a bit

 

Only if you want to. I'd be keen on hearing, but only if you're willing to share. - I've added you to ICQ, can you auth me please?

 

I'm glad you had an opportunity to experience m-m sex. I also got hot reading your story. Thanks for sharing it. Hope you get to fulfill all of your fantacies.

 

I could give you feedback...

For real, though, congrats! I don't know many, or any "not gay" guys that have given a BJ. I think its awesome.

 

That may be. But I do believe that things can happen in a person's life, people can do things, and from there it is impossible to turn back. I believe that history gets written and then it is immutable. It can have a bearing on what happens in the future, and it certainly cannot be undone. I also believe that experiences can... bend people. Bad enough, or forceful enough experiences can not just bend, but possibly twist or even break them.

Now, your experience here was experimental and hedonistic. It is not likely to bend you, because you wanted it. It is probably a bit more of a life-changer for your friend; I say this because from your description of his reaction, and his unwillingness to reciprocate, he does not seem really keen on what happened. I'm not saying he was traumatized, but let me relate a story.

I became pretty good friends with a guy who owns a local shop doing outdoor equipment outfitting. He's one of those really nice guys, outgoing and gentle-souled. He's kind of in with the Rainbow/hippie crowd who go camping and stuff, and do Outward Bound and N.O.L.S. stuff.

I had long suspected that he was gay, but don't have a problem with it. We went and hung out a number of times, and he introduced me to a band that I really love now, called Boxelder. Well, one night after hanging out, he and I were at my house, just chillin'. He got kind of serious and told me that he wanted to talk about something, and I was open to it so he told me that he was gay. I don't remember if I even said that I had thought so or not. Anyway, he expressed a desire to "play with me." He wanted to play with my cock and/or suck me off. Well, I had no interest in letting him suck me off, but in the spirit of friendship with a guy whom I really trusted and whose company I liked, coupled with the novelty of being "played with" (which I always really like) and being "admired/worshiped" (which sure is nice, too), I let him jack me off. I also let him -- afterward -- jack off to me getting myself off. (I had to look away -- I had absolutely no desire to look at him.)

Now, there was some novelty to this occurrence, but it did not and does not form any kind of, like, happy memory or something for me. In spite of that -- I guess because it is in my nature to be accommodating -- I let my friend do that I think two more times on different occasions.

I sure don't consider myself gay, or even bisexual. I loooove girls. It's been about three years since the last time my friend and I had this happen, and I really don't have any desire or intention to have it happen again.

On the other hand... I would be lying if I said that I have never fantasized about sucking a guy's cock. I've even had dreams in which it happened! But I have never really met a guy in real life that I would consider sucking off. I think that the male body can be beautiful, but generally there are all kinds of things about guys in general -- from personality attributes to body hair -- that turn me off to them. I would say that I fantasize only about faceless, featureless "guys" in the most generic, anonymous sense on the rare occasions when I think about doing this at all. It's likely I never will suck a guy off.

See, this I am not quite clear on. You wanted to see what it was like to blow a guy, but you did it with a guy who you're not even attracted to or don't find physically appealing? I think I would have held out for a guy who I at least thought was good-looking.

Blue skies,
-Jeffrey

 

I understand what you're saying, and yes I can see how it could affect him, which is why I'm going to do everything I can to help him out. Talk with him about what happened, etc... I'm not going to just abandon him.

I don't remember saying he was ugly. He is quite good-looking. He's got an Italian father, and so he's got very cool perminatly tanned skin. And if he had a bit more confidence (and lost some of his arrogance) he's have the girls all over him.

The thing is, like I said, I'm not attracted to guys. I've tried, you know, to look at guys and see if I fancy them, and it just didn't happen. If I was going to hold out for someone that I fancied, it would never happen, because I'd never find anyone.

So i'd rather do it with someone that I know, and like (at least as a friend) than just some random guy off the street.

I wanted to suck someone off to see what it's like, and if I enjoyed it. Now I'm not sure I enjoyed the act itself (it was OK, but hard work), but I did enjoy the fact I was able to give someone pleasure... I've now found it out - mission accomplished.

 

kinda liberating aint it?