I wondered what peoples take is on this I have done this a couples of times on chatrooms but only talked dirty never actually touched myself. Although it does make me aroused and horny. So is it wrong or is it acceptable?
i consider it to be cheating, but thats me. its something you should discuss with your partner to see where the confines/boundaries are in your relationship
If you are considering it and feeling guilty, ask your partner if they think it's cheating. If you are not sure if your partner is "cheating" by doing it, they are continuing to do something that bothers you. "Not caring about your partner's feelings" is a different problem than "cheating", but a problem still.
I consider it cheating. Especially because there's always the chance that some sort of emotional affair could develop. But regardless, I'd be pissed if i found out my boyfriend was getting off on random cybersex. Then again, it all goes according to what you and your partner decide are suitable boundaries.
I have to disagree with the majority opinion here. Cybersex is not cheating anymore than masturbating to porn is cheating. Both my wife and I engage in cybersex with other people, my wife even has a regular cyberboyfriend. If anything, it has added a bit of spice to our sex.
if you two agree to it being ok in the relationship, of course it isnt cheating fo ryou two it may be fro otehrs though, who do not permit cybersex in their relationship
In my personal opinion its cheating if you are doing it behind the back of your loved one who does not approve and you choose to lie to them. Its not the act that makes it cheating its the lying and scheming that make sit cheating.
