Need girl opinion, handicap

Thanks for answering. I have kind of an handicap, and it drives me crazy.

So I was wondering if my love life or sex life would be over.

 

Sorry for asking, but I am curious, what kinda handicap ?

 

Well ( I can't believe I'm saying that). I got an operation because I was very sick and almost died. They removed part of my intestins. I kind of have a bag on the side of my tummy to collect wastes. It is ttemporary cause I'M gonna have another intervention to "replug" it normally. But I also might get stock with it if it gets bad. I got a gf but I'm very scared of losing her cause I might never get a gf again or have sex if girls find this disgusting of some sort.

 

are u a decent nice guy?

 

I guess... Kind of hard to answer,

Let's say, I'm a normal guy, kinda look nice (apart from this)

 

Never got the courage to ask my friends (girls) about it.
Thats why I do it anonymously.

 

As long as they like you, it won't matter.
And as long as you're not some jerk, they'll like you.
You're good hun.

 

It depends on the person ofcourse. I've never been with someone with actual handicap (been with someone who was severely depressed for 6 years and near completely apathic and feelingless, which could be seen as some kind of handicap?). But really it doesn't matter. Its love that counts and mostly thats a mix of behavior, personality, looks, interests etc. A handicap doesn't matter much on that.

 

oh, and I don't really care for muscles. lol

 

Ya this I know, my gf says the same thing. But I got to say, people are kind of picky, don't know if it's because of standards established by medias. Well' that's another debate.

I'm just think I don't want to scare any girls...