I have a good random thought....Mothers (in general) are NOT supposed to talk shit behind thier childs back (like mine).
Mothers are just as human as everyone else, and should feel jealously over a daughter who is in essence a younger, prettier, sexier, version of herself Hotwater
im pretty sure everybody at one point has talked behind somebodies back. at least she didn't call your work and say you wanted a raise and deserved it and then tell you your work called and wants to talk to you. Good thing i woke up during the middle of her calling or i would have called work to see whats up and felt even more embarassed.
In some ways I agree...but the fact that my mother is way more immature than me makes me wonder why. Ex: I was having a hard time with life in general a while back and just kinda broke down and cried (crying does let the sad out) and my mother was in a pissy mood about something (i don't know what) but i tried to talk to her about my problems and vent when she just barked at me "Why don't you cry about it?" in the most mean tone ever. I just don't get her sometimes. Mothers are supposed to be there for their kids in their time of need right?
Does it count if you mom is talking shit about you but not really to anyone? "That wretched girl won't fucking go shopping with me! Too fucking fat and lazy to help me get groceries! She can just move out then, I don't fucking need that whore!" (in polish) And there is only the two of us home...does it still count as behind my back if she's screaming it in the kitchen? lol
if you can hear her and understand her then technically its not behind your back, but if she didnt say it directly to you and you hear her saying that, thats probably worse
that was mean of her to say... weird how mothers can be... my mom can say weird stuff too. I was called fat before I had one ounce of fat on my body, now I really am fat... just to show her! hehe. sigh.
Well if everyone want to go start a commune somewhere away from menapausal mothers...Climb Abord! *: )
moms are fucking crazy... thats just how it is...accept it and love it or be pissed off and hate it...
yeah, my mom is going fucking ape shit now thats she going through menopause my mom never really said anything...she might have said stuff about me behind my back, but usually i'm too oblivious to notice anything going on behind my back i am perceptually clueless my dads always been the one to talk shit about me to my face
my mom fucking ROCKS. but she does bitch about me behind my back, as does my sister. it's just letting steam off. it doesn't mean anything, not really. angel, your mom may be going through perimenopause. when my mom did, she went PSYCHO for a few years. she settled back down into the cool bitch she's always been. but that's a HARD time for a woman.
My parents are great, always done what they could for me, assisted me in everyway, and they think I'm great! I think they like me better than my sister too, lol
my family is pretty damned close. my dad's an asshole, but that's part of his charm. my whole family is a bunch of assholes, actually. but people love us for that very reason. there isn't a member of the family that isn't chock full of piss & vinegar.
My mom tells me how horrible I am to my face, as well as talking about me when I'm not around. She praises me as much as she disses me. haha I don't really care anymore. I know that when she does something shitty I make it known and talk about it to my friends.....so in essence I am doing the same thing. We all need to vent periodically. I don't think you should get so offended by your mom blowing off steam. Oh god menapause has made my mom crazier than what she used to be. It's better now - at least she doesn't try to stab my dad anymore. hahaha but then again she did dent the hell out of her car when she rammed his truck. Crazy just runs in my family. :tongue:
