Shes 53 and has lost all intrest in sex she had surgery back in 1995 women problems. She always took care of me orally and masterbation, but now nothing. I love her derly and trying to not chet what does a guy do?
Ask her to see a doctor, it might help. If she loves you, she'll do it. I've seen something on TV about this, they say it's kin of a disease. Can be cured by some kind of Psychology of some sort. Good luck
menopause can kill a persons libido as can "women problems" depending on the nature do you "take care" of her too, or is it one sided?
I have done a lot to try help her, she wont even talk about it any more. She makes no effort at all. I have droped tons of hints and even tried things we use to do but nothing.
i mean, do you get her off sexually too? do you turn her on, spend time on foreplay, perform oral sex, etc?
Hey man my wife is in the same condition. I have found that there are plenty of nice ladies out there who just want to get it on for getting it on. They love for me to show up good and horny, and we have a great time together, part company and go about our own business. I guess you would call it "no strings attached" arrangements. I'm happy, my wife is happy, and several other ladies are happy too! It's a win win situation, maybe you should try it out.
I have a similar problem, I just talked with her about why she felt like she did, and instead of constantly asking "why" because usually you get a response... "I don't know" I asked, how come, or started their because sentence for them... I find, giving them massages, in a warm, dark, candlelit room with incense going and soft music helps them relax, and you can always work your way in from there. (ALWAYS tell them how sexy they are)
Ty but been there done that, I dont even ? she loves me but, sex is notta I have talked till im blue in the face no pun inteanded. I have not a clue what to do.
