hi guys, new on here tonight and thinking of buying a fleshlight this week as the hand thing is getting mundane after all these years. anybody have one of these and are they that great?
I have one & wouldn't do without it. When I first purchased it I was a bit dubious, as I wasted my cash on a supposedly similar toy once before, but the 'flesh' on that was rock hard, with no give, and I couldn't fit my over average girth into it without being flaccid first. The FleshLight, on the other hand, is very soft, with a genuine fleshy texture. It also has plenty of give, which allows for most penis sizes and being totally waterproof is easy to clean - just take it in the bath / shower with you. When in use, it feels almost exactly like the real thing. In fact it is often described as a sexual technique training device, rather than a simple sex toy. There are several inserts available for it - My personal preference, so far, being the Wonder Wave. Due to my excessive girth (as well as extensive usage), I have had to replace the insert a couple of times, because of the material eventually splitting, so each time I replaced the insert I tried a different type. I'm currently on the Ribbed one, which includes lots of nodules inside which, to be honest, I've not been too impressed with. I think my next one to try will be the Speed Bump. Although they do the Vagina, Mouth & Anus designs, I've always gone for the plain Vagina, as I would imagine this is purely cosmetic & unlikely to have any effect on the actual sensations experienced. If I have one complaint about the FleshLight it is that the material seems to degrade & becomes a bit sticky. When you first receive it it's thoroughly dusted in corn starch so plenty of lube is required. Once you get into using your FleshLight on a regular basis it also seems to mould itself to your own personal size & shape. It also maintains heat for quite a while, so you can either warm it up beforehand by running hot water through it, or come back to a session / start a new one & it can still be quite warm for up to an hour later. Whilst KY, or any other water based lube is the best to use, I have found that Clean & Clear Oil Free Creme Wash, by Johnson & Johnson makes an excellent lube, as does plain spit - although this is usually better as a refresher when the initial lube starts to dry. Personally I don't produce precum, but I imagine that anyone lucky enough to do so would also benefit greatly from the the benefits of such a natural lubricant. In short, if you haven't already got one, get one - In my opinion they're as essential to the guy as the vibrator is to the woman.
I have a fleshlike and love it!! In my mind it is one of a mans best sex toy. It even works great win wife use it on me !!
Unfortunately, it is something that you have to try for yourself. The two guys above obviously love theirs, however, I bought one two years ago and found it fantastic for about three weeks but I got progressively bored with the sensations it produced. There is no real way of 'ringing the changes'. More irksome was having to clean it each time I used it and all the farting about warming the insert before use. In addition I felt vaguely ridiculous with my cock stuck in a can the size of a trash can. Personally I think there is no substitute for your own hands that's how I wank and you can have a never ending variation of techniques - believe me I have tried most of the wanking aids available! When I bought the Fleshlight it was very expensive, I ended up throwing it away. That was definitely the last contraption I have tried. P.S. By far the biggest waste of money and to my mind the biggest rip-off is a thing called 'Aneros' it is supposed to give you an orgasm by massaging the prostate. You stick it up your arse and giggle it about to zero effect!!
I imagine that would technically be the case as you're supposed to be 18+ to enter a Sex Toy site, but if you [innocent cough] get a friend whis over 18 [/innocent cough] to find an online site that accepts PayPal or Switch, as opposed to Credit Card (more & more are accepting PayPal now), I doubt they will really be bothered. So long as they are told that the customer is over 18, then they're covered. Personally, I reckon it's stupid to have an age limit on such things, as it's only for masturbation - something that's going to happen long before the age of 18 anyway. After all, there's no age limit (not in the UK anyway - can't answer for other countries) on buying condoms, and they're likely to be used for activities far more advanced than harmless masturbation. Ideally, if you have an open relationship with your parents, you could get them to buy one for you. I know that if I were a father I would be all too willing to let any son of mine have one. In fact, many suppliers define them not as sex toys, but as "Stamina Training Aids" & "Educational Aids". A bit pretentious, perhaps, but maybe a way around the rules.
