I've been pretty active on a forum geared towards supporting women. It's all female members. Anyways, it's very censored. Curse words are ****ed out. And the mods get on my ass when I'm telling it like it is to some girls! It's kind of bullshit. For instance, there's a whole forum for "cutters", girls who like to hack up their own arms and then whine about it for attention. And they get that sappy, coddling attention from these sensitive girls there. Not from me. I was straight up, and said "I once had a friend that cut, and it frustrated the hell out of me. It's stupid and all for attention. It's like dealing with a stubborn child." And all of a sudden, I got emails and comments about how "If I can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all." And "you don't know anything about cutting. It's about dealing with life, not a little child." I mean, really! It's ridiculous. So now I'm some bad person bitch who is insensitive and mean to vulnerable girls. Bullshit. I'm just being blunt and saying what I want to. Obviously my opinions aren't valued around there, or welcome. It just reminded me that I'm grateful to be able to come here, to Hipforums, and be about to say Fuck that! and not **** that!
I am part of many forums, one being extremeoverclockers.com. They sensor out cursing too but I just put stuff like @ss, a$$, SH!T, D4MN, H3LL, f^ck, etc. You know what I'm doing here. But yeah, don't barge around forums and flame people for cutting there wrists. You should be assertive but don't go offending the whole board.
dont flame them for cutting themselves?? isnt that a bit like saying to a nurse "tell the self harmer hey go ahead its ok use all those medical resources, nobody minds some spoilt selfish bratty attention whore slicing their wrists up, daaar so what if a snotty little six year old kid from a car accident comes in here they will wait, theyll understand you need time to heal inside" uhhhh yeah like the selfish twerps dont need a boot up the ass for wastin everyones time! The next self harming attention whore I see will get this guy on their ass http://youtube.com/watch?v=2IlctZFIE7k
Because there's nobody in the world that is ashamed they cut themselves and hide it. Nope, no way. It's all for attention. It's not like there's a legitimate scientific reason that cutting yourself works or anything.
It's not like there's a legitimate scientific reason that cutting yourself works or anything. Exactly, psychology is not a science, and psychologists and psychiatrists would be the first to admit that. So the self harmers are nothing but whiney little mentally diseased freaks that like do do a lot of attention whoring, I mean there are even sites that pimp that stuff ya know! These people are so secretive about it that if nobody notices they are doing it they go on to bigger and bigger things until someone does notice. I say just wait till they can get served in a bar - take em out for a drink or two get em a whore that'll sort em out and then just for good measure have em spill their drink over a neanderthal so they get into a fight - a night out like that will certainly blow the sh*t outta their brains A drink, a lay, a punch in the schnozzle, that'd sort em out
Scientifically speaking, cutting yourself is a good way to release adrenaline. Adrenalin does close to the same thing as morphine or possibly a divided effect of heroin. But ya know what, it's a really dumb way to get attention/
yeah and a pretty dumb way to get high i mean wow like a bag of heroin only costs $10 or something stoopid, but then thats also a dumb way to get high, erm why not bungee jump off a bridge, now thats a fuckin high!
Too bad I wasn't talking about psychology. It's biology. When you feel pain your body releases good endorphins that help with physical AND emotional pain.
Do you think it's really necessary to actually see the word "fuck" in order for the message to get across? However, I do think it's pretty ridiculous that the forums are censored and yet there's a specific forum for "cutters", which is basically an unhealthy escapist way of coping with problems, similar to drugs.
I am gonna go cut myself because I just saw the word F^CK. The I am going to post on a forum about how I cut myself. Then pics!
Cutting is practiced by different people for different reasons. Sure, some do it for attention, but most do it as a way to deal with pain. try not to be so cruel and judgemental.