I don't know how much more I can take!

I'm sick of being the girl that all the guys can just hang out with...

I cuddle with the guys here at camp but none of them like me in a way to do anything else...especially one specific one...

It's really frustrating...It's made me all kinds of agro.

 

Maybe they're just waiting on you to make the first move.

 

the guy's actually made a point there, annie. you dont want to be one of the guys or enter that friend zone, make a move, do something really sexy. draw him to you....

 

ok, this is what i would do, make it obvious you like him, hopefully thats already accomplished, spend some extra time with him, talking, sharing, laughing, touching his arm, snuggle, hug, then if you guys share a tent together, then snuggle up with him cus your "cold" and ask him to put his arm around you. then go from there!

 

When I saw the thread title, I thought you were refering to cock.. Hmmm

 

Just be direct...quite a few guys are clueless. If it doesn't work out at least you tried.

 

damn i have the opposite problem.

i wish i had more male friends.

 

i have mostly guy friends too. in my wedding pics, theres all guys, the only girls are the flower girl, my best friend shelli, and both of my sisters. Girls just are bitchy back stabbers, at least i can talk to cool ones online here!!!

 

I only have guy friends. I have a few female acquaintances, but my best girls moved out west.

 

well to be honest,being the job youve chosen id say it isnt a good idea to get involved with anyone there..

your in a group situation,on a island. you live and work with these people. if there is a falling out it wouldnt be good for anyone involved.

noone wants to deal with that kind of drama.

id say you chose a job that doesnt allow for relationships,and thats the way you should look at it..

others there may be doing it,but that does not make it wise. and im sure when there is a falling out youll see why...

 

You sure they are not all gay? Cause if it was me I would have already made a move and been shot down ample amounts of time!

 

you're just gonna have to force them

 

like take him, shove him into the tent and take his pants off, and see if he objects!!! lol bet he wont!

 

exactly

or the alternative - i apply for a job there :tongue: haha

 

Been there, done that. He likes a girl from another camp...he doesn't think it's right to "fool around" with me when he likes someone else. He's told me he likes me, but he's been trying to get with this girl for a long time... He admits he's really fucking stupid...but doesn't want to hurt anyone...especially me.

Personally, I think it's lame...because he's definitely missing out. I've told him that, too...and he says "yeah, I probably am"...

 

HHB, I know you're right...and all logic points to that...

It's just difficult to shut off the feelings sometimes.

 

There is only one thing that he said in all of that that I believe is true. He doesn't want to hurt your feelings.

He's just not into you.

Maybe its time to lower those standards lady!

 

Lower my standards? Why should I? I'm a catch!

 

I did say maybe.

Just walk up and kiss the dude. Look at him for a second or two, in silence. And then walk away.

At least it'll get him thinking. It is a very sexy move. And it provides you with an out .... due to your spontenaity.

 

I agree.. Its a good idea.