breaking past self dought to get a gf.

I am a large guy. At 6'4 and 265 I seem to doubt myself when It comes to women. Tell me if there is a way to get past that. I could use any advise you can give me.
Jimmy

 

you mean doubt? just remember 1 thing, theres someone for everyone & for every type theres someone attracted to exactly that type
also, the average womans more interested in personalities then physical attributes (not all ofcourse, just generalizing)
here this might help you

this guys well known for a genetic abnormality that has earned him the nickname wolf boy, it causes thick hair to cover every inch of his body..& well..his gf (i believe now wife) is absolutely gorgouse

getting over self doubt starts with being happy with who you are, & not looking down on yourself for how you look

 

Lose some weight if you care that much.

 

personality is usually more important to girls anyway. so if you hate yourself and have no confidence, thats gonna be more of a detriment than "being a big guy"

 

exactly. women do not respond to a man's looks as much as they respond to a man's social status and any indicators that link to his social status. So if you speak well and are fun that'll be an indicator of that. do the best you can. Dress nice, cut your hair, be well groomed and have a personality that is non-threatening and not needy and you should do fine. the only real way to get over your fear is to test the waters.