Help me! :P!!!

Discussion in 'Women's Forum' started by TrissyCandyPop, Nov 8, 2007.

  1. TrissyCandyPop

    TrissyCandyPop Member

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    Okay, heres the scoop. I have a close guy friend and he's 20. We are VERY close. i'm the only girl he talks to about things he doesn't want anyone else to know. If im hungry/thirsty, he gets whatever is in his way and pushes it aside just to make me happy. As time progressed, we figured out that we both have strong intimate feelings for eachother. I'm 15 and he's 5 years older than I. I want to be with him and i can name every reason why but i dont want to have to hide it from everyone else, i don't want him being thought of as a pedifile, and i DONT want people to think differently of me, especially my friends..and my family.
    But then, theres this girl named Mckenzie, she's bi curious.. I think she is the cutest girl i have ever seen. I don't want to offend Jason ( the 20 year old) if i decided i wanted to try dating her to see how things go.

    Please HELP. I need some kind of suggestions/opinions!!! Thanks!!
     
  2. lode

    lode Banned

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    My advice is, you're young and this is all going to seem confusing to you one way or another.

    People are going to have all sorts of thoughts about that relationship. People will also have thoughts about you dating a woman.

    But you're never going to be happy if you make your choices based on what other people think.

    That doesn't mean I think a 20 year old and a 15 year old dating is the best idea. But I just told you not to listen to what other people think, didn't I.
     
  3. Aristartle

    Aristartle Snow Falling on Cedars Lifetime Supporter

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    I suggest you turn to medication and braces before you make any rash decisions on this one.

    Question: How did you meet this guy and become close to him?
     
  4. Cate8

    Cate8 Senior Member

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    Since you are so open and friendly with Jason, you should bring up the topic of your bicuriosity. I bet he would be supportive
     

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