I really need some advice...

OK so im with this guy (wasnt a vegetarian when I met him and fell in love) Then he stopped eating meat. (not because of me, he did his own research) And I found out a few days ago that hes been eating meat again for a while, and not telling me. I never thought that eating meat bothered me, but I think it might on top of the fact that ive been lied to. Do I work through the lie or do I stop it? I need help because Im kind of blinded by feelings.

Thanks,
Gin

 

my advice is to set him free.
hes not yours to change and perhaps there is someone bette for you out there...?
If you think he is really the one then you'll have to deal with the little things he does that upset you.
I would really think on this one though....If hes going to lie about eating meat what else will he lie about?
sending you some light
peace

 

that was my exsact problem. Than you for the advice

 

I'd be worried about the lie too... but, have you confronted him about it? If so, how did he react? I don't want you to think I'm condoning dishonesty or anything, but... maybe he was working up the "nerve" to tell you about it, or something similar, and you found out before he got a chance to? Knowing that you're sensitive to meat issues, it could just be that he was feeling guilty about telling you, y'know?
love,
mom

 

He says he was going to tell me. So this is very possible that he was working up the nerve. Ya dishonesty is never a good thing, but I think this time at least im going to try to work it out.

 

and you come give me shit for wanting a meatless relationship, pssshhh

 

I want a honest relationship...not a meatless one...Did you not catch that part?

 

honest relationship..
that's funny

 

wow your not a nice person. cant you stir up trouble somewhere else? Whats the point of being the way you are?

 

i'm sorry..

 

Did you asked him why he started to eat meat and didn't told you anything?

 

I know it seems like a thoughtless move to lie to you about this.. and I know that your mind has probably roamed to the realm of "if he lies about this, what else is he going to lie about" but I'm guessing that he meant well by lying. I'm guessing that he loves you a lot and doesn't want to upset you because he wants to keep you around. Voice your concern over his lie, but don't let it eat you up inside. You know better than I know, and if a meatless diet is something extremely important to you then maybe that is a reason for you to move on. But, if you want to know what I think, I'd say that if he's generally a good person and makes you happy then let it slide.