New and confused

Discussion in 'Coming Out and Confused!' started by smegs08, Nov 3, 2007.

  1. smegs08

    smegs08 Member

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    Hey i am 18 years old and recently came out of the closet. For the last few years i have been very confused with my sexuality and it was only recently that i realised that i was gay. I know, it seems late, but its true. I have never really socialised with gay men before out of fear of ridicule from my straight friends. I was wondering if i am good looking to you guys?? I know its an old cliche but i really am confused. Am i ugly or hot??? Would you consider me a good looking guy?? Is there anything I could do to improve my appearance and look more sexy?? Cheers, it would be awesome if you guys could help me out. Thanks so much.

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  2. Drew_445

    Drew_445 Member

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    are you a redhead? I am too!(if you are)

    I wouldn't fret too much about your looks, theres not much anyone can do to there face without involving surgery...body is different.

    im not saying your ugly, in fact i think your pretty cute.

    but don't worry about how your face is...you can build muscle etc., but your going to have to live with your face(which shouldn't be hard for you...) i worry about my looks a lot, thinking i won't be attractive enough for anyone to like me...but a friend of mine said most gays he knows care more for personality than looks(could be different elsewhere) but i think you get the point
     
  3. txbarefooter

    txbarefooter Senior Member

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    You are a fine looking young man, definitely NOT ugly. I really like the last photo because you aren't so serious looking in it. You have a nice smile, use it more often.


    as for what would make you more sexy... just be your self ! what might be sexy to one might not be sexy to another. use what you have and you'll be fine. good luck

    peace,
    bob
     
  4. *Andy*

    *Andy* Senior Member

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    You don't need to worry about this kind of thing - everyone has a different preference when it comes to guys. Like most people here know, I find fat dudes hot which I guess might seem a little odd. Other people find skinny guys attractive and there bound to be guys out there who would find you to be the most amazing looking guy ever! Just be yourself :)

    And your pictures aren't working for me so I can't tell you what I think
     
  5. ImRon

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    none of the picture links would work for me but Im sure youl find the right guy!
     

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