if it's only cuddling.. okay.. i don't want anyone trying to insert things into me when i wanna just cuddle
I looove cuddling too. I can cuddle forever. Hm, I start to wonder if the guy thinks I'm too clingy though. I get offended when someone turns over and doesn't want to cuddle anymore .But cuddling makes me feel sooo good and relaxed..how could someone turn down cuddling?..They're certainly mental.
you're unlucky in that sense... i've met such guys... at least one but in general you are right...most of them hug you meaning after that you'll go further... such a pity girls like cuddling more than guys... i love being hugged more than being kissed...
cuddling yes. hours at a time no. life is just too friggin short and there are too many other things both that need doing and are gratifying to do. sorry, but too much of ANY one thing becomes tedius, later if not sooner. life is too short for long attention spans, unless you're out in the woods by yourself meditation. 45 minuets at a time is usually about as long as i can go without getting 'antsie' and wanting to get up and do something creative on the computer, or any of the million and one other things that are always needing to be done. that or fall asleep and dream and do creative and exploratory things in my dreams. things that generally tend to no involve human company. don't get me wrong. i love cuddling. i love the idea of cuddling. but life is just too short not to get antsie and want to get up and start doing something else. =^^= .../\...
I don't like to cuddle too much either, but I still generally love to cuddle . We do cuddle a lot but usually when we're watching a movie or about to go to sleep, you know. I can almost always tell why he wants to cuddle, I'm not sure if he notices but the way he does it tells me he eitherm just wants to relax and cuddle, he wants comfort or sex. It's very easy to tell when I think about it, cuddle is like a snuggle, comfort is like a hug, and sex is the other one haha.
after being with a guy who wouldnt touch me in public and showed pretty limited affection our whole 2 years together i found it reallly weird adjusting to my new boy cos he is the total opposite. we mainly walk with hands around waist but sometimes hold hands. he is always touching me and i have to say i quite like it, moving my hair out of my face, getting food off my face (ha), touching my leg when we're sitting etc etc. i guess it's pretty sickening to other people but id do it more just to annoy them. so yeh i love cuddling but sometimes im just not in the mood.. like when it's really hot and i just want to be alone
^ it doesn't sicken me at all I think it's quite inspiring if anything makes my insides happy to see couples like that that's how I am with my girl
I don't particularly crave it, but I don't mind it. I have a hard time falling asleep like that though; I'm more of a roll-over type for that.
