Okay. So...basically...me and my bf have both been having dreams [more like nightmares] of us breaking up w/ each other. He even had one where I died. I don't think they mean anything but they scare me. Like the first one I had, he spread a rumor about me, then I broke up w/ him for another guy at skool...Even tho id NEVER, EVER do that. Then he had one where i died. He said it was from strangulation cuz i had bruises on my neck and some on my arms Then last nite I had a dream where I asked him if i needed 2 worry about him breaking up w/ me and he said yeah. and then he did in my dream. I'm so in <3 w/ him and i can't stand dreaming about this do these dreams even mean nething?! *alison*
i think dreams sometimes perpaire us emotionally for worst case situations, and maybe keep happening until some part of us is finally convinced that we are prepaired emotionally to deal with them. i find that more likely then being predictive in any sort of immediate sense. although at 15, you life is still pretty completely at the whim of forces and powers beyond your control outside of your dreamlife. your parrents COULD get reassigned to have to live and work in some other place then where you are currently familiar with. this was a not uncommon experience when i was living with mine growing up. =^^= .../\...
The fact that you are both having the same type of dreams may mean that you need to speak to each other honestly since there may be unspoken tension between the two of you.
well i (the boyfriend) think that there is only one type of tension between us and thats our jealousy, if she talks to a guy even as a friend, i get nervous, and the same to me with a girl...this is the only thing that gets to us, and we have some small fights once in a blue moon, but we talk them out and usually end up with an apology hug and kiss, so theres not a lot of tension there.
Hi x_alison (and KnottyAdam), here's another view. I thought it is as simple as you make it. Just make the dreams your own power, inspiration, wonder and joy - make it your ally no matter how nightmarish they come across. It is fully yours. It is about coming into the relationship with your own self where the dreams take you deeper into your own changes and unknown parts of who you are. It's like when you leave the gardens of childhood and find the wind blows hard and irritating sometimes, but then it's just brushing you and asking to let go the worries and spread your wings and fly, and make yours what is yours already. To die in dream is to change ... so do not fear change or the loss of yourself but change beyond all that you thought was sure. Enjoy the ride, and honor the dreams and love who you are (and all the others) in spite of (and because of) (and no matter of) the mind-blowing contradictions. Just know love is coming along (and it grows ...) So just be sure it is all you
Allison, If he broke up with you in a dream then chances are he will not break up with you in real life; the dream symbol means the contrary.
