I have thought I'm bi for a couple of years (about 2). But if i am not able to tell my parents that im now dating a girl, doesn't that show i am not completely one? It's weird, I'm attracted to both sexes, but then there's certain things i like about both more. (and another note, i know a girl can not make me climax). I feel so indecisive, it's bothering me... I wish i just wouldn't care.
i've known i was bi since i was like 12, and still haven't told my mom, or anyone in my family for that matter. Just cuz you're afraid (or nervous or whatever reason you have for not telling) to tell your parents doesn't mean you're not who you are. Think about it, some homosexuals live half of or even their entire lives, never telling their parents, or people close to them. My problem is a fear of judgement or rejection. It's one thing to talk to strangers about your sexual preferences and be shunned by them, it's another to be written off by the people you care about most. So it's completely normal that you feel this way. It doesn't make you any less bi if you're a little hesitant to tell people.
Thanks Lucy, no one else wanted to reply..haha. You made a good point. I am attracted to girls, but the relationship aspect is not the same. But maybe if i met someone that was what i needed, that would be different. -Jill
What doesn't feel good cara? I am not seeing anyone, that was just another person fucking around with me, but it's ok because i didn't really like her. I have been staying in ALL the time. But it's making me not worry about being in bad situations anymore. life doesn't feel good sometimes.
i know exactly how you feel. i was too scared to tell my mom that i was bi and that i was now engaged to a female. so one day ( a very carefully well thought out day ) i just bit the bullet and told her and she was so proud of me and happy for me. any ways i think that if you just kind of slowly turn them on to the idea of being bi or gay and then tell them i think that they will not only respect you more but they will also be happy for you. If your parents arent understanding than just tell them that you had made a decision and that no matter what they say you cant and wont change. try either or and good luck.
