I consider myself very lucky. I have found a woman who I belive deeply that I will spend the rest of my life with. I love her deeply and would die for her. When it comes to sex we have wonderful chemistry. All this aside, she was the person I lost my virginity too, and I want to experience all sorts of sexual things and I always have been that way. She used to be very jealous and close-minded about this sort of thing, but we live a very hippy-ish lifestyle(more me then her but nonetheless) and have come to an agreement that we can sleep with other people and have flings untill we feel that we can settle down and just be the two of us, aside from three somes and other sexual experiences. We just both feel that we need to be able to look back on our sexual lives and have memories and experiences with others as well as eachother. Our sex may be more meaningfull, but still I think we need this. I am gratious to have a girlfriend who is willing to do this. So.... anyone wanna shag? ahaha. .
Dude! I'm in the same sort of deal. I'm engaged to this girl and we're planning on getting married but keeping it open/swinging. We do some kinky stuff too and we're both bisexual, but whatever.
I think I want the same sort of thing. But my boyfriend isn't sure we can do it because we can both be rather jealous sometimes...