Going down on a girl...

i read somewhere the the left side of the clitoris has the most nerve endings. after a little self-experimentation, i think thats true.

 

I love it when my husband sucks gently on my clit.

 

I think the main thing is take your time. Sometimes the race to get there is not the best thing. And girls if we need direction tell us. Its how we get better.

 

Give him some advice then

 

i had a really bad experience eating a girl out last week.. i got her warmed up and all wet.. when i started eating her out it was like she was sleeping.. nothing there... i stopped and asked her what she liked and all she said was she wanted to be supprised.. but fuck that gave no directions at all... anyone have this problem??

 

lick her ass. suck her pussy juices. make her feel that you are also enjoying it.
and keep going until she does come...

 

i love it when my boyfriend licks my clit n fingures it but i can never cum either y is that?

 

I used to have a tough time gettin girls to cum by goin down on them. Eventually i refined my technique. Tell your boy friend to use his fingers at the same time, especially in a motion as though he were signaling "come here" with his pointer and/or middle finger. In this fashion he should be putting pressure on your g-spot (many chicks think g-spot gives them the best orgasms). Good luck.

 

I've had success with another technique I'd like to share with you. We begin by kissing, hugging, and some fondling. I usually undress her, slowly, kissing all the way down her body as I do. Once she is undressed, we begin kissing again. After I know she's getting a bit aroused, i begin kissing her ears and neck. Then, I kiss lower, spending a lot of time on her nipples and around her breasts. I lick and kiss my way down her tummy, and when I get to her pubic region, I kiss there, too, but not on the clit. I kiss and lick all around, making sure I do not touch her clit. Then, I'll kiss down her thigh to around her knee, being sure to kiss behind her knees. Then, I'll trade legs, and begin a slow journey back up, following the same routine. I end up back at her lips, and spend a little time there before I begin the process again. This time, I'll plant a kiss on her clit before I venture south. Then I slide back up, being careful not to touch her clit. When I go down again, she usually stops me from going further down than her pussy. At this point, I'll spread her outer labia and lick inside, but not directly on her clit just yet. She'll usually try to move toward my tongue, so it's kinda tough not touching her clit. Finally, after some more "teasing" in this manner, I'll use the flat tongue technique directly on her clit and she usually explodes in a matter of a few, well placed licks.

For extended licking, I'll make the ABC's with my tongue, tracing each letter that gets a verbal response more than once. Once I'm through the entire alphabet in capital letters, I'll begin the lower case letters.

All of this can take up to two hours and requires a lot of patience...but it's well worth it for her and eventually, for me

 

Dutch,
I like the write-up a lot. I will definitely remember that advice, especially about the alphabet. It's a good way to remember what she likes and also keep from thinking about how tired your tongue is getting.

 

make your finger into a hook shape. ravage vagina with said hook!

 

swallow all pussy juice and beg her for more.

 

Thanx, Hip. Good hunting.

On the finger thing, I slide in two fingers, usually index and middle, with my palm up, then motion like I am saying "Come (cum) here" with the two fingers. I make sure my hands and particularly my nails are clean and well groomed. No woman wants an infection from dirt or to be scratched by a wayward nail. After a few minutes, I can make her cum and cum and cum and gush what seems like pint after pint of cum all over my hand.

Again, I listen to her reactions, so I know pretty much when she is gonna cum.