hey, me and my gf have been wanting to have sex for awhile, but shes having a few problems-- (im sorry that this may not be very descriptive, but its difficult to talk about these things to strangers) -first, she is very very tight, and "fitting" is a problem, now weve been told that fingering helps loosen, but we have come to find out that it doesnt seem to be working very well, does anyone have a suggestion for this sort of problem -second, when i do go down with a hand, after awhile it starts to hurt she tells me, and honestly im not going in very far/hard, i dont know what to do to fix this either, cause....im a little bit bigger than a finger, and i just dont think that she would be able to....finish -last, she has told me that shes never been "there" and i have no suggestions for this one either, can anyone give us an idea? we are teens and were responsible and know consequences of our actions, we plan to take all measures of safety...both of us are virgins and we love each other to death, it would be wonderful if someone could help with these problems or just lead us to somewhere that could. thanks
How big is your dick? If it's long and thick, you're not going to be able to break her in without pain. Are you licking her pussy? I suggest making her cum by eating her out and working a finger in while you're doing that. If you're able, buy a small vibrator for her, and let her use it by herself and during sex. You'll have to widen her out little by little. In the meantime, teach her to give good BJs and handjobs.
If she masturbates, starting with small vibes or dildos and progresses to bigger ones, that will help a lot, imo. There's a thread about this stuff somewhere in the masturbation forum. You should check it out. It's all about this girl who can't get a small vibrator to fit. In the end she gets it worked-out. All in time. Lube helps a lot too. If you don't have any, olive oil...
