Why does falling in love suck so bad?

It's supposed to be a good thing, right? Why is it filled with so many doubts, worries, insecurities.....and just pure anguish? I hate this part of the relationship......but then again, I love it too. God damn I'm confused. ACK!

 

Yes it is SUPPOSED to be good, but it is basically just pure anguish. At least, that's my take on it. Love sucks.

 

cuz falling always hurts. everytime

 

maybe it's bcuz you're under the constant threat of losing something precious.

 

no, no you have it wrong, falling IN love is the greatest thing ever, you get the best feelings when you're with the person and just feel like the happiest person in general. And i never felt insecure w/ the girl i love (well, she dumped my ass, but i still love her, haha) i always felt like the safest person, the lest thing on my mind was insecurities about losing her. but the part you were right about was basically when a relationship ends with a person you love, now that right there is absolutely horrendous, thats the part that sucks, and it sucks worse than anything. But i really wouldnt have regrets, i'd take those incredible feelings of love any day even if i knew that i'd hafta go through this pain again.

but eh, thats just me, i could be wrong

 

falling in love sucks so much because for me its always a one sided thing.

 

Becuase it is not unconditional Love, the only true love which harms not.

 

I know exactly what you are going through.

Being in love is so scary, because you are so vulnerable.

 

Because there is nothing you can do about it.

 

I have been through that, too.

I think it's because anything that you truly love, you fear ending up without. (If you were indifferent, why would you care if you lost it?) You get all guarded and protective and possessive of it, specifically because you love it so much. It's a paradox. The more you love, the more you get miserable because you do.

Good luck. Just keep on keepin' on.

Blue skies,
-Jeffrey

 

i'd like to change my answer...

why does falling in love suck so bad? becasue you've never fallen in love with me :H

 

[sigh] It's from one extreme to the other; you can be soooooo in love and happy, and all it takes is one teeny weeny stupid little thing that suddenly makes you totally insecure and neurotic!!!
Love sucks!!!!! (sometimes!) It's also the greatest feeling in the world when it's going well..... :H

 

it feels like that cos you're so vulnerable. Opening your heart to someone is one of the bravest things you can do, you dont know what may happen. that's why i'm not interested in falling in love at the moment thank you very much.

 

Hi GreenEyedLady

Yeah its a good thing i guess

It is because you change
and ever seek so
and not tired are you
and all the lovers you hold
they just help you to find
the wonder of being you

while inside the fragile cocoon
you are changing on
ah you have not forgotten
how it feels like
when the heart spaces open
to again set you free

and on butterfly wings
embrace the stormy sea

Just a thought

 

Thats just apart of being human, I really don't think relationships are that complicated i think we make them complicated.

 

Hahahahahaha. Dude, you just stated the umm... obvious. Who else makes relationships complicated but the err relationship-ers? Don't worry though, i caught your flow

 

because in the words of J Geils Band " Love Stinks"

 

Get a pocket pussy, then all your love problems will be solved.