If the sex is good...

How many of your usual requirements in a girl/boyfriend will you ignore to continue allowing yourself to see them?

 

maybe a few. but if its just about sex, then its just about sex. i wouldnt call someone my boyfriend just because they were good in bed.
is that slutty?

 

i can get good sex anywhere. i'm an awesome fuck. if i'm not having a good time, i'll think of a way.

so yeah, i can put up with a lot of shit if they're just a right fit, personally. but i'm kinda easy to please.


however, in my MAN i need an alpha male who's charismatic, SMART, funny, strong, etc. i can fuck just about anyone. loving them is the hard part.

 

Yeah, I mean. I'm not looking for a girlfriend but I've sorta started fucking this girl and she wants to be all boyfriend/girlfriend kinda thing. I've told her that it's not happening but I can see that she is falling for me anyway. The sex is fucking awesome and I'm unsure of what to do. There is also a slight age-gap...

 

i have yet to have good sex......
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Somehow, I think you are lying...

But if you are not, you could always come and see me. I'm not making any huge promises but I sure would enjoy trying to help you enjoy yourself.:drool:

 

i'm not lying, i'm surprisingly not sexual, i like to flirt...men call me a tease

 

Ahh. You should try it. Sex is sometimes so much better than teasing. Not always mind you, but after a prolonged bout of mental foreplay, fucking like savages is amazingly satisfying.

 

just be honest from the get-go. you can't really help it, though, that some women equate sex with love and commitment. either you can break it off now, which is advisable, or you just stay INCREDIBLY honest and she'll wander off.

 

I am honest. ALWAYS. It's not neccesarily a good thing but it's better than having to deal with remembering which lie you told to whom.

About her wandering off. That's just the thing. I don't want her to wander off, we are just getting to the good stuff. But if I was a good guy, I should let her go now.

 

yeah. dave spent two years with a woman who was just a convenience. she finally left heartbroken because he wouldn't marry her and have children. within six months dave and i were living together. you know how that damages certain women? it took her SO LONG. okay, yeah, she's okay now, and has a beautiful baby. but still, be kind.

 

Well, it's very early days yet. this has been going for just a couple of weeks. We just spent about 60 hours in bed over the weekend and this morning before she left to go to work for the week, she started crying because she thinks that I am going to hurt her in the long run. All the warning signs are there, but it's been quite a while since I've had such a fucking good time regularly. I know I'm being a selfish prick but...

 

it's not selfish, it's just who you are. you don't feel attached. i can't ever understand why women attach A GOOD FUCKING to A LOVING RELATIONSHIP. honestly, it's ridiculous. be honest with her, she's already crying, she's already hurt. that's her own fault. if she knew how she felt about sexual relations, then by god, she shoulda known better. just don't lead her on or she'l go all fatal attraction on you.

 

there have been and are enough bunny-boilers in my life up to this point. I'm pretty sure this will just end in tears, but hopefully not just yet.

 

have you considere that you're attracting the bitches that won't die in the bath?

 

if its just the sex i wouldnt consider them my girlfriend, id just call that constant hookup

 

what ever happened to fuck buddies?

 

thats what im talking about, in lake louise if you wernt spending all your time with the person your hooking up with its fuck buddies you goto the bar meet up with the buddy go home with the buddy do the nasty and repeat the cycle everyday till the sex gets shitty/person leaves lakelouise/or you meet someone you actually really like

 

What's wrong with dating her?

 

maybe shes ugly....