Wouldn't this piss you off too?

I wasn't going to give my 2 cents here, but I decided to anyhow. I enjoy oral possibly more than ordinary sex. By ordinary I mean missionary style, my first wife only excepted that position and was not willing to go oral at all. Maybe 3 times in seven yrs.By the way my first oral experience was performed by a much older lady and with God as my witness she could pull a basketball threw a garden hose. My second wife was more into oral and allowed me the honor of pleasuring her in the same fashion. I quickly realized I rather loved doing it and obviously i had something right because of the movements and low moan I always got from her.

Sure will be nice to find someone who enjoys it as much as she did, so I can in turn enjoy it as well.

 

make him toss your salad first, and then you slob the nob

 

Sixty Nine dude!

 

Well, I guess my opionion puts me in the minority, but here it is. I don't really see him saying that he didn't feel like it as a big deal. Certainly not a reason to get mad at him. I mean, if he never wants to go down on you, but expects blow jobs regularly, that's one thing. Then I'd be pissed too. But I think that if you make it a trade every time ("I'll only go down on you if I get something out of it."), it kinda takes some of the sexiness and enjoyment out of it. It makes it seem more like a job and less like something you want to do because you want to make your partner feel good. And I don't think anyone can fully enjoy oral if they don't think their partner wants to be doing it. Just my 2cents.

 

that makes alot of sense.
I like that comment.

 

love chilli dogs.........but they're a distant second to muff diving!

 

I'd be pissed but for a different reason. Why is the guy asking for head out of the blue? It's like, if you want sexual stuff from me, cuddle me, nibble my ear, make me horny and make me want it, then I'll want to rock your world. Some guys are so lazy. Where's the damn passion?

 

Well, thank you.

 

Well, if I can eat you at the drop of a whim, vice versa ought to be the case.

Sometimes you just want to do things to each other. More often than not I want to do something to her, but every once in a while I'll ask for something just for me.

It's a give and take situation, but to think that it has to be that way ALL THE TIME is ludicrous.

I may give her pleasure three times to my one, but I don't whine about it, because giving her pleasure gives ME pleasure.

 

go on an oral sex strike. no give until he gives. tell him there are plenty of other guys who would jump at the chance to give you pleasure.

 

this thread is from 2004...

 

Lol touche

 

The 69 position is both a man's and woman's best friend.

 

EDIT: This post is almost 4 years old and the posters, last thread was Feb.2005...... Yeah....

 

Oh well. :H