im kind of depresed, i dont know. ive been looking for love for maybe 5 years now (sounds stupid but yeah). i dont know maybe not looking but waiting. so i dont know, im not talking about sex but actual love, i want to experience it - but i feel like i never will. you know when u try something u suck at, and u either know oh i can do this, or you know oh i can do this if i keep trying, but then theres some stuff u know will never happen. im not sure if its because i dont really talk to girls, but i hear u know someone is it once you see them - and i see nice girls but i dont get that feeling. fuck i dont know what im trying to say but i think i may be alone my entire life- and it seems really possible im 16 btw and most guys my age have been with many girls, and theyre total cunts, they just in it for pussy and then just hurt them. ive always been nice. recently i had an idea, that maybe women are just pure stupid, i dont know im not trying to be offensive here but it seems true. 1 situation: a girl i found really nice, felt comfortable talking to her (for once). anyway shes in my college an i have this guy from my class, he tries it with her. i feel like shit only because i known her for very little and maybe i should have acted sooner or something. but this guy, walks up to her, and he is a total slut and idiot, gives her a little box and i mean he hardly even knows her, so shes like what it is it and all that, hes there talking shit and she opens it and theres a condom there. shes ew omg blah blah. im standing next to her thinking what a crackhead this guy is. so she knows hes a slut, in 6 weeks, he got a girl, got her to kick ger 2 year old bf for him, droped her, went with another girl, than another eventually broke the girl im talking about friends heart. now shes with him. WTF? and he aint even a good looker or anything, some grime fucker in a tracksuit. and stories like these repeat themselves daily around my life. im thinking maybe if i bathed once a week, wore a filthy fake nike tracksuit, and went up to random girls showing condoms they would like to be with me also? now i know confidence is number 1 thing, but wtf has condom exhibition got to do with it. so therefor my true confesion, as of today i think women are stupid beings, possibly some exceptions - but ye pretty much all women. this is based on 5 years experience. seriously to think id be gay by now, but i dont see no attraction to men. fuck it
lol... What kind of place do you live?!!! Most of the time round here it doesnt matter if they guys hott or anything bt as long as they're funny. Guys like the condom dude probably wouldnt get any (well less) here. But we're in chavville so eh.. Who knows. And btw i think i can relate with you here... It sucks... Hang in there... I dunno really what to say but good luck. GOOD LUCK!!! And you'll have more luck in college/university.
sooo ....let me get this straight u have been searching for love since the age of 11...as u mentioned u were sixteen and u also mentioned a couple times that you have been at this for five years?? did you ever perhaps think age has something to do with it?? i mean...i don't think 16 year olds hardly know what they want....i sure didn't when i was sixteen. and to say u "believe women are stupid beings" is a completely ridiculous comment!! and just goes to show how young and naive you really are...with that attitude you will never find love. As for condom dude...there are alot of bone head males out there and im sure the same goes for females...sounds like the both of them fall into this category. As if this girl would date a friends ex....that usually doesn't happen. And....as far as advice goes. 1) knock the crappy attitude. 2) be a nice guy (as right now it might not seem like its working....but you will end out miles ahead in the long run). 3) keep showering (EXTREMELY IMPORTANT). 4) stop the female bashing (cuz it pisses us off) good riddance to ya!!!
well look i see how it might be offensive to you, living in america and not experiencing the downfall of UK. ok i might have exxagerated the 5 year thing, make it 3 years. biggest idiots were going out with the nicest girls. trust me you have little or no idea how bad it is happening here, and i dont normally say what i said, so ill rephrase that and appologise to the confusement from the pervious statement: teens and young women in UK are stupid beings in general. i will be flying out to america when im of legal age, perhaps callifornia. im really tired of the environment here, the weather, and the actual thinking of the people. maybe the grass is greener on the other side =/ start fresh and nice oh and btw, i have known for a long time girls are attracted for badboys, but i didnt know it applied for wanabe's too. imo, a gangster is someone like the guy from new movie 'american gangster', not a slob with bad rhymes
you're only 16, you have a ton of time to find a girl to fall in love with love isn't what it's all cracked up to be anyway.. i was in a relationship for 3 years and thought i was in love until it fell to shit and we broke up, and now i realize it wasn't love at all.. it's kind of a trial and error thing i guess you could say. and it is true that girls are attracted to bad ass guys, i am too, i'll admit but i'm getting to the point where i'm like, i'm sick of dating assholes, i want someone nice.. and i found a boyfriend who is so nice and would do anything for me. you just gotta wait it out, thats all.. you'll find someone
watched a family guy episode about women last night xD. idea was, women love when u treat them like crap. damn i laughed hard, mihgt be true tho, check it- man treats woman good, has everything. she cheats on him, leaves him in the raind. woman lives with alcoholic, alcoholic hits her everynight, treas her like shit in general and steals from her. she stays with him for the rest of his days telling everyone how much she loves him :lol:
you're only 16! are you sure you want to settle down already? "im not sure if its because i dont really talk to girls, but i hear u know someone is it once you see them - and i see nice girls but i dont get that feeling." yeah if you don't speak to girls you probably won't be able to find a gf? do you not have any nice friends which are girls that you fancy? and do you mean to say that once you see a girl, you expect to like fall in love with her instantly? :s i don't see how you can fall in love with someone you don't even know.. plus i don't think women like to be treated like shit, i dont anyways! whereabouts are you from in the uk anyways?
Yes because women and teens love it when you call them stupid. I think you need to change the attitude because (and im speaking from the point of view of a female teen from the UK *gasp* ) it is not nice being called stupid! There are plenty of great girls out there, you just have to look harder, look somewhere else. It doesnt make EVERY young women stupid.
Kateismename your look very attractive in that pic love british gals, and green id love to live in london so much cooler than the states
