Hello all. I'm Bi and 14 years old and I'm a freshman. Though, instead of having an attraction to my own age group, I find an attraction in adult men and women. I want a lover so badly right now, but laws don't permit me to have one till I'm 18. I feel like I'm gonna explode. I like poeple mostly in the age range of 30-65. Is this weird? What should I do? I never can have relationships with anybody at school because I can never feel for them the right way. THIS SUCKS!
Mexi is right sunshine. IF I were attracted to you, and maybe we meet and have sex, I get to to to Prison for molesting the innocent youth. At least in the USA. You are under 18. Yes??? You get the idea. I'm closet Bi. Married to a woman for 20 years, but I miss sucking dick. Understand the problem you cause by wanting an older man?
*sigh* I know I need to wait forever. But one question still lingers in my mind, does anybody think I'm a bad person or gross or something for liking much older guys?
hey its not that bad, my boyfriends old enough to be my Dad lol. Just dont rush into any old pervert. oh maybe 60s just to old I would'nt touch that! yuck
Warepro,I don't think there's anything wrong or gross about you for having your feelings and wanting someone older.It maybe you just don't relate to the people your age and just relate better to older people.That's cool but I'd also say you're way to young for anyone that old.Maybe if you found some mature people (your age)to hang out with and a possible relationship that might solve your problem.Am I on base here??Is it a maturity thing or is it something different?You can't change the law but if you can find a healthy legal way to deal with this you'd begin to feel better.No law against having older friends as long as they stay friends!There has to be options for you I'm not saying things will be perfect and rosie but there has to be legal ways to help you deal with it.No doubt it sounds like a tough place to be.Don't let it get you down though hang in there. Good luck,.. J
i think it's just great that you're being honest with and open about yourself. and as far as the whole older men attraction is concerned, i've come across a bunch of girls and several guys like you. it's not common but it's not weird or unnatural. and "Just dont rush into any old pervert" is very very good advice. enjoy being innocent young blissful etc. -franzde
13 or 14 isn't a good age to fully define your sexuality. When you'll get more mature everything may change.
