Ok so its almost 4 months into our relationship; havent gone any further than hooking up. Both first timers for anything sexual, but began talking kinda dirty a few nights ago. OK so conversation developed playing abit of Q&A and we both jokingly owrked out scenario of a bath full of melted chocolate with me eating strawberries off her (slightly odd yeh i admit). Anyway and she said "thatd be rlly fun and id love to do that.. but it depends on how self concious i am feeling" ^^^^ thats the problem. How do i get an inexperienced girl to feel less self concious?? Things arent akward; never have been between us, she just said its a teenage girl thing... Well whatever; i love her too much to have her feeling akward and self concious; i want her to feel like the most beautiful thing in this world becoz thats what she is to me. Sorry this is a bit long
well.......just as a good guess. if she is self concoius at times you should build up to it all day. Keep complimenting her, make her feel comfortable maybe dress up and go for a nice meal so as well as you telling her she looks nice she knows she has put effort in to look nice as well then later you have both had a good night and she feels beautiful, that well she should not feel like she has to worry about anything. hope it helps!
you tell her shes beautiful, that you love her body and her mind, taht shes gorgeous and shouldnt oworry so much, etc. essentially, regular build up via compliments
