GF pregnant, Could it be someone else's baby?

Hello ok, Ok the reason why i am posting out here is because i need a NETRUAL party on this.

My gf of 1 year is pregnant. Now, i am in question on this.

My last two GFs ( dated one for 2 years and another for 3 years ), which both of them i have had sex with MANY time, No condom and No birth Control and i hardly pulled out.

Anyways, we started dating a year ago and about 3 or 4 months into the relationship she got pregnant, Which i am really happy about. But something is really bugging me. If i never once got my last 2 GFs pregnant over a total of 5 years, How on gods earth did i manage to get my current GF pregnant after only 4 months?

Now i totally trust her without a doubt, but i am just really bothered by this at times. I have spoke with friends and they tell me not to worry, that i should be greatfull i did not get my ex's pregnant.

In the past i thought i was sterile, simply because i just never got either of my exs pregnant. I am 32 still young, A little out of shape, dont do drugs, just smoke cigarettes.

The only thing that i DID do differently since my 2 past GFs, was i was smoking weed (only once a nite at home) for about a month or 2, while i was smoking this is when she got pregnant. I doubt the weed smoking did anything to help my sperm? i though it made you less fertile?

I trust my GF and we have no problems, but i am just confused? I have no got anyone pregnant in 5 years ( no condoms and no birth control pills) yet i get her pregnant is 4 months?

I honestly though i was sterile, Why? I dont know, just thought something wasnt working.

Any advice? Suggestions?

 

some women are more fertile than others....

 

Yeah i can understand that and have thought about that.

BUT, having sex for say 3-5 years straight with 2 other women, no condom, no birth controls, nothing...and nothing? and then 4 months in with someone new and i get her pregnant? Wouldnt you feel a little in question?

 

OH WAIT!!! i forgot to add something VERY VERY IMPORTANT!!

My last ex, as soon as we split, she dated a new guy, guess what? 4 months ALSO into there relationship he got HER pregnant!!!!

I had sex with her for 3 years and Nothing! 4 months with her new BF and he gets her pregnant?

 

"Wouldnt you feel a little in question?"

i would...but i also know how painful it is to be accused of carrying another man's baby and constantly being accused of cheating when you are not...

my ex claimed the same things that you did (thought he was sterile, had never gotten any one pregnant before, etc.)....and he got me pregnant within four months of us dating....and it is his baby for sure....


soooo...there's my two cents worth....

 

Yes i know how stressfull and annoying it can be for someone to accuse you of cheating or what not, and for that fact i am not trying to bring it on her, it came up once with her and that was it never again

As i said inmy 3rd post. My last ex ( we broke up last year ) she got pregagnt with her new BF 4 months into there relationship, yet with me, 3 years and nothing? this also makes me more in question. As soon as i heard my ex was pregnant, I am like ok, Something is funny.

 

well then...i'd consider yourself lucky and blessed that you can have children...

and i guess if the child comes out looking nothing like you...maybe then you can opt to have a paternity test done.

 

Go to a doctor to see if you are sterile, problem solved.

 

You said you smoked weed while you where with your other GFs? Correct? That actually can play a role in whey you never got them pregneant because it makes your sperm lazy and now that you quit your sperm is well better so thats prob what happened.

 

it's definitely yours! congratulations!
some women are more fertile than others and it's all about chemistry, sometimes 1+1 is 2 and sometimes 1+1 is 3

 

It can only take one time for a woman to become pregnant. It sounds like you were lucky with the first two women. My fiance and I had sex many times and once I got on birth control, I became pregnant b/c my doctor who prescribed me the pill also gave me antibiotics and he didn't bother to tell me that the pill is ineffective when taking antibiotics. I found out I was pregnant after I had a miscarriage. I was no more than 2 months pregnant when it happened and I had been on the pill for around the same time.

It is possible the other two women might have gotten pregnant, but had a miscarriage early in the pregnancy. If it occurred within a month of getting pregnant, chances are good they wouldn't have known. The only reason I knew was this 2 inch grey and bloody blob came out when I thought I was having breakthrough bleeding. If the miscarriage would have happened w/in the first month, I would have had really bad cramps and heavier bleeding, but the embryo would have been too small to notice. According to one site, miscarriages happen 15%-20% when the pregnancy is recognized, but the actual percent of miscarriages is closer to 50% when you consider the unknown pregnancies.

As someone else said, if you want to be sure, get tested to see if you're sterile and get a paternity test. Those are the only sure ways to know if the baby is yours or not. My fiance thought he was sterile until we had that miscarriage. His first wife had never gotten pregnant in over two years that they were together and he hadn't got anyone else pregnant, so it was a surprise when it happened.

Peace and love

 

congratulations =]
maybe your exs might of been taking the pill without you realising..
ive never heard of weed making you less fertile though.
maybe get your girlfriend to do a perternity test

 

It only takes 1 sperm. By having unprotected sex for years, you were basically playing roulette. Once in a while you'll "win."