Sex is unpleasant for me

I cannot derive any kind of physical pleasure from sexual intercourse. when a penis is inside of my vagina it pretty much feels nothing at all. i sometimes wonder if i have ANY nerves in my vagina at all. all i know is that a guy is in there going in and out

and while i do stimulate my clitoris during sex, it doesn't really do anything at all to heighten the penetration part of sex. in fact whenever a penis is inside of me clitoral stimulation is less sensitive. The only time clitoral feels really good is when I dont have any kind of penetration involved.

Also, the minute I have penis inside of me my mind starts to wander. I don't know why but it's like I can't focus on the moment. In my head I am trying to find fantasies that i can use to make sex pleasureable to make it feel like something.

can someone pleasure suggest a solution to my problem?? or tell me what is possibly wrong with my body??

 

bummer. have you tried doing online research on sexual dysfunction? this might be a good place to start. getting your hormone levels checked might be a good idea.

http://familydoctor.org/online/famdocen/home/women/reproductive/sex-dys/612.html

 

Okay. what are hormone levels?? i am 22, hormonal problems sounds like something much older women have

 

anyone/?? i guess this is a very uncommon problem. sucks to have a sexual dysfunction there is not a lot of ppl who can identify with me

 

yes i can!! cant help you tho but i do understand what your talking about

 

nice 2 know.

well we are in the minority considering no other women have come forth to reveal they feel the same way.

bieng made like this sucks so bad

 

not necessarily. hormones can be deficient or out of balance at any age. this could be caused by psychological or physical factors, or some combination of the two. but testing hormone levels is relatively easy and inexpensive and it's wise to rule it out.

 

maybe your a lesbian (not being rude)

 

I think it is rude. I'm not gay

and fyi there are lesbians who love penetration

 

um its not that uncommon and its not a dysfunction..its called asexual.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Asexuality

Asexuality is a sexual orientation[1] describing individuals who do not experience sexual attraction.[2] Asexuality as a human sexual orientation has only been recognized and defined in a few academic studies since the 1980s, and a community of self-identified asexuals has only coalesced since the start of the 21st century, aided by the widening popularity of online communities.[2] Studies have placed the incidence rate of asexuality at 1%.[3]

Note that asexuality is not the same as celibacy, which is the deliberate abstention from sexual activity; many asexuals do have sex,[4] and most celibates are not asexual.

 

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How the hell is that rude? I clearly stated that I didnt mean to offend anybody lol.

 

I am not fukkin asexual. I clearly do have a sexual attraction to the opposite sex.

 

Perhaps see a specialist who would know more about this kind of thing than random people on the internet?

Peace and love

 

No stimulation from intercourse http://www.goaskalice.columbia.edu/0378.html

I'm a woman who cannot feel pleasurable sensations during intercourse http://www.goaskalice.columbia.edu/3229.html

 

I know how upsetting and frustrating it can be to want to enjoy sex and not being able to. Luckily, you are definitely not alone and there are many many options that can help, or even solve your problem! First things first, you need to talk with your gynecologist. More than likely you have a hormonal problem. It might be fixed as easily as getting on birth control, or undergoing hormone replacement therapy. There are also many natural remedies. Maca root, for instance, is a great aphrodisiac, and can be taken safely as a daily supplement.

Don't get too down over this. And more importantly, don't assume that you will never have a functional sex life. I was in your position a few years ago and am now loving sex with my partner. In fact, maybe a little too much.
Best of luck to you.

 

Don;t worry about it. it will happen. Maybe your man is too small. Ger checked

 

wtf?!

"Alice thinks that women rarely feel orgasmic pleasure from intercourse, it's more a feeling of closeness and intimacy with your partner."

what a crock!

 

Yeah, I'll stick to my first post: see a specialist.

Peace and loce

 

god you dont like to hear anything but what you want to here, seriously dont buck up against me,ya may not like the reply...

while you may be attracted to men its obvious its not a sexual attraction.

a person doesnt go from oh he/she is so hot i wanna fuck them to wow im sexually attracted to him but i get no pleasure from having sex with them..
a sexual attraction begins in the mind and it doesnt work the way you say. unless of course you have mental issues pertaining to intimacy.

clearly if you had a "sexual attraction" to someone you would enjoy sex with them, .. thus the reason they put the word "sexual" before attraction..

geeze can ya not use logic?

your not this your not that,, well then go to a fucking doctor if ya dont wanna here what people on here have to say..

crazy...

 

I don't even think you should have commented on this subject cause you clearly don't know what you are talking about. Trying tell someone what is in there head and then tryhing to label them gay wtf are you crazy?

So men who have ED, are they homosexuals then??

Women do absolutely nothing to me. I am hetereosexual and just becauxe I do not enjoy intercourse with a man does not automatically mean that I am gay. That is a very narrowminded way of thinking.

There are other women who said that htey had the same problem and now can enjoy sex. This has nothing to do with sexual orientation