My girlfriend and I have been having sex for about a month now. The problem is, I can never orgasm and come. She doesn't complain because she enjoys herself a lot, she orgasms multiple times. I feel great for about 5 minutes, then my penis starts to get sore and I just feel like stopping. This happens with and without condoms (she's on bith control), and during both sex and when she's giving me head. I'm 21...what could be the problem?
Yeah I have no problems alone at all. Even when I'm with her, I can keep my erection for hours if I have to, I just can't ever finish.
I had a chick that was terrible at giving head; I could never jizz in her mouth. She was just so terrible at it. Whew. Have you tried different positions? For me if I'm doing a girl doggy, I can start counting down from 10 in my head and I'll cum before I hit 7. At this point it's psychological for you too though. No way you're going to set a pattern like that for a few months and then just brake it one day and never slip back into it again. You need to tell her that you need to use her body the way you want to in order to satisfy yourself. Sex really is selfish; it's just cool cause it's two people being selfish together.
That's another problem. She lets me do absolutely anything I want to her. I love doggy style, it feels great...but only for about five minutes, then I'm sore and I don't really want to keep going. After stopping, 10 mins later I'm ready for more though.
Yes we tried lube, but it's wet enough that that's not a problem. The 'soreness' is what it feels like after you come but you keep rubbing your penis...I don't know if that describes it well enough. Thanks for the help so far though
Only because I started asking questions will I keep it up. sigh. Okay, is it sore on the skin, like from an abrasion (rubbing too much and making the skin red) or is it sore like if she was all bent weird and way too tight.
Experiment with different types of lubrication - look for something called "Silk" - it really is that smooth.
