I am a male STRONGLY attracted to other males, but I don't know if I'm bisexual or gay. I think females are "Pretty" but I am in no way sexually attracted to them. I have never kissed either sex but I feel I am still more attracted to males than females because once again, I ONLY think females are "Pretty". So thats my question. Am I Bisexual or Gay?
Or, at least it means for this period of time in your life, you are more attacted to the idea of being with another male as opposed to a female. First and foremost you are a 16 year old guy who hasn't yet closed the door to his identity. Thats cool, thats all you need to be right now. Have fun being who ever you are. Steve
I would'nt worry about it so much,I mean do ya need a label?I'd say just be yourself and let your journey bring you where you need to go.You're 16 I would'nt think you'd really know at your age anyway I certaintly did'nt.Don't waste your time thinking or worrying to much about it don't let your life pass by while you ponder if you're gay or bi,you'll understand it in time.It's very confusing and if you think too much about it you'll drive yourself crazy,I know I did it really sucks.For me I like womens bodies more than mens although I like mens bodies too just not as much,its really the person,who they really are if they are good caring kind individgual if I'm compatable with them someone I could love someone whom I could be happy with.What sex they are is'nt so important to me,although I find sometimes I'm more attracted to males than females other times I'm more attracted to females than males.I've read alot of post of people saying the same thing.Also things may change for you in the future.It is very confusing.I used to think and worry about it alot and finally after a long time I figured I'll be me whatever that means accepting my sexuality and being good to myself regardless if I'm gay or bi or whatever.I hope that helps. . On that note I wanna say I really hate all the labels I don't understand why we just can't be ourselves and not try to label everything being happy for who we are without getting so crazy bout' trying to label everything.It just separates people more.We're all together here on this planet,We bleed the same blood,we're all human to me that should be enough as long as we are good to each other and not hurt each other.Is it so important??I dunno I think labels are bull*hit I never fit into a label and I generally don't fit in much at all that's cool I'm just me,that's me. Joan is Awesome! Rock on, .... J*
well not to sound crass or a little trite, but i'd advise you to experiment. i know how hard it is as well but try to lose any inhibitions you may have or fears of rejection or humiliation. once you can get over all of that you'll probably be happier. and relax, i'm still like you and my sexuality changes everyday, for you at least it sounds as though you kind of know which direction you're headed in... just be totally 100% honest with yourself. that's when everything seems a little clearer... hope this helps! cheers, -franzde
