Pls help I need advice

Hey guys,I told my best friend that Im gay about 6 months ago and our friendship has gotten much stronger and better, but he constantly asks me about gay sex and how disturbing it is to him, sometimes he says "how can you like fcuk the anus when theres s**t in it" and stupid things like that who I think any straight guy or person for that matter would think of, and he doesnt believe that a man could potentially fall in love with another man. Now I dont really have a lot of experience on that field but I cant find the right words to explain this to him, well when it comes to love I guess it is not really so much what you can tell as of what you can feel. I would just like to find some things to say, without sounding defensive or arrogant, so that he could understand or at least be more open minded about me being gay. Im not trying to make him see things my way, I would just want him to understand, but I cannot seem to find a right way to put everything together. Maybe it is just me being stupid but I would like advice on this. Please and thank you.

 

Has he ever been in love with a girl? What's his relationship history?

 

Tell your friend you haven't met the right guy yet and being gay isn't just about sex. I find if you ask a straight guy "do you want to hump every girl you see on the street, bus stop and shopping centre?" they usually reply "of course not". So your response would be and being gay isn't any different, it's just that your not into girls.

 

First of all a lot of STRAIGHT guys like to fuck girls in the ass... surely he realizes this?