Girls, how often do you fake an orgasm?

Discussion in 'The Orgasmic Experience' started by johnschlong, May 23, 2006.

  1. GentleBen

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    Maybe you could help me get an idea of what orgasm is like on my thread ? :)

    So far I don't seem to have had much luck getting the definitive explanation.
     
  2. Zcustom92

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    ya cmon tell us
     
  3. Hypocrit

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    Saying "fucking" every other word makes you not only avant garde but totally radical too, according to 67% of pro-bono Polythiestic Panpsychist universalists.
     
  4. VolFan

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    With my ex-husband probably 2 out of 5 times. Since we have been seperated ZERO.
    I dated a guy once that I faked it almost every time...I was young and he was horrible in bed.
     
  5. sarh22

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    Never,why should i.
     
  6. MollyBoston

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    I used to fake it, which I'm ashamed of. Now, never. We often use a vibrator at some point during sex, so if I'm not cumming from him, I'll cum from that. It's not all that easy for me to cum just from straight sex. But we do a lot of foreplay too, so there's that - and a fair amount of the time, straight sex isn't even part of whatever we're doing, he's got it elsewhere or something, so we've kindof expanded the definition of sex to the point where both of us are likely to cum from all kinds of different things, not just "penis in vagina."
     
  7. green hell

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    i used to fake it way more, when the relationship was new.
    sometimes they just try so hard and you feel bad for them!
    it is counterproductive though....
     
  8. Angelina31

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    When I was younger, sometimes. Now I don't have to.
     
  9. Johanna30

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    the mostly time
     
  10. ##Angela

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    mostly too
     
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  12. GentleBen

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    The truth is you can't fake an orgasm.
     
  13. The Imaginary Being

    The Imaginary Being PAIN IN ASS Lifetime Supporter

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    Not as many times I wished my ex was somebody else, i'm sure :p
     
  14. I'm Jade<3

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    I never have. I've only been with one man, and I don't want to mess it up by faking it. Besides, I would feel bad if I did. Besides, I honestly wouldn't know how to either. I mean, I don't really know what to do, I would probably just look stupid. Haha.
     
  15. Wyoming455

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    Sorry to resurrect a 10-year-old thread. This topic has been on my mind, but didn't want to start a new thread because I knew it had been discussed already.

    I'm in the same boat. My wife cums during oral, but has always had trouble cumming during penetration. Lately, however, she's been "having orgasms" during penetration. I'd like to think I'm finally doing something right for her, but something in the back of my mind is wondering if she's just trying to make me feel better. I've considered asking, but do I really want to know the answer? I'll be honest ... it turns me on. Is she faking because she knows that?

    100% agree with this. I'd rather you work with me to find a way to give you what you want/need.

    Care to share how you can tell? I could use some pointers.
     
  16. Panama Jack

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    My wife and I talk openly about sex and our sex life daily.
    Men, if you are not asking, you should be, and be willing to accept the answer. It doesn’t mean you are not satisfying her. We have been doing this for over twenty years. No subject is taboo or off limits. There is no doubt I know she is having the Big “O”, orally and by penetrating her. When it comes to sex, it is give and take. But never take it for granted.
     
  17. Barry Mandelay

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    Have you ever seen the movie "When Harry Met Sally"? Meg Ryan fakes an orgasm at a restaurant in the plot. She does an outstanding job acting. I'm sure many other women can do the same. It's not always a woman's goal to have an orgasm while having sex. There's a lot more to it for them emotionally. I have had partners fake the orgasm, some terribly, probably so we could move on or make me feel good. The fake usually happens as I'm tasting and licking the pussy and she just isn't going to cum. Sometimes its that way. A break down in talking with me promotes the acted out orgasm. I can accept that she isn't going to orgasm and will be happy to move on for my pleasure if she will tell me. It can become tiring laying there licking and sucking her trying to bring her off so I would rather know she isn't than have her finally give in and fake it.
     
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  19. Fayeth

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    Never. I usually just be honest and tell the guy I'm having trouble cumming. Nerves and anxiety can cause that to happen and performance anxiety... Or sexual incompatibility
     
  20. Alice in SC

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    I used to fake it a lot, then I started fucking my husband's friend ❤! I'm sure glad that hubby likes to Watch!
     
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