How many of you would be willing to have an affair where the man only served you orally. You were not expected to do anything other than let him go down on you?
Strange. If I want a man, I want have "regular" sex w/ him too. If I don't want him, I want nothing from him.. I would feel very well not to give oral sex though.
If you are going to have an affair, what is the difference about what you actually do? That doesn't make sense to me. At that point the line has already been crossed, so the extent to which you will go is irrelevant.